Should I wait a couple years before I find a girl?

[Anonymous]

I want to find a super pretty nice girl.

I am 26 so I am thinking I should try when I’m 28.

At the rate I am going at 28 I would be so set in my career and develop a lot of skills, I would be muscly and fit, maybe more handsome with more style. Work on myself.

Then I could pick up a stunning nice girl 24 years old looking to settle down? Maybe they would take me more serious at 28 too.

Seems reasonable to wait a couple years

I don’t think you should wait

Updates

1 y

I also wanna have 4 kids

[Summeroflove]

Dude… I don’t want to discourage you but don’t find someone whose wanting you for your money and stability. Find someone whose your partner, your best friend, who loves you unconditionally, for who you are, as you are, but also pushes you to the best version of yourself. That is who deserves your love not a deadbeat whore who wants a free ride in life. Who will cheat on you with bums and losers while you’re busting your ass. Who cries that doing a load of laundry is too hard.

If you want something more traditional that’s fine if you know what you’re doing. A lot of those relationships don’t work because people don’t know how to really do them. It many times ends up one sided and is very attractive to dark personalities.

You should wait until you find yourself genuinely attracted to someone. Just because you may get more quantity of attention doesn’t mean quality of attention. I don’t want you making the mistake of going down a rabbit hole of absolute misery. Ending up with a girl who does nothing but take and suck off your hard work. While contributing nothing of value in return.

[Asker]

The issue is girls want everything. Money, looks, nice guy the list goes on…..

[Summeroflove]

And those guys get cheated on. There are good women out there. It may take time to find.

If you get a girl because she wants your money and all that stuff. Yet she contributes nothing herself. It will be one sided and you’ll be cheated on

[Asker]

I know what you’re saying but I would never be in that situation. I am very careful if a girl isn’t acting how I would like and benefiting my life and showing me trust she would have to go.

[Asker]

I am also good with money and how to separate things shall we say

[Summeroflove]

Then asker that girl would want you dirt poor

[Summeroflove]

I’m not saying a good woman wants a man whose financially irresponsible. But you get my point.

[Anonymous]

Sure, I'm still waiting for the right girl.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO

[Nikki1989]

Can you do anything more ass backwards? Jeez!

[Anonymous]

do whatever you want... it's your life