Met a guy, during date he said 3 times we should meet again, he’s been messaging but hasn’t asked yet again to meet - am I supposed to?

[Anonymous]

We met nearly a week ago - and he’s been flirting with me for sure since and we’ve both been initiating texting back and forth - during the date he said he wants to meet again - but he hasn’t made a plan yet - am I supposed to ask because he planned the first one?

[SueShe]

Since he seems the one that is so desperate to want to meet you again, then it is obviously him that would have to make the move to set up a date.

Now, seeing that he is not active leads me to believe that his words were spoken lightly and that he did not really have the intention to meet again. He was either intoxicated or high when he suggested a new date. If he was really interested, he would have made a follow up date and not let time pass without taking action.

Apparently, he seems to have lost interest in a new date.

[XHopelessRomanticX]

Yeah, if you want to see him again, go ahead and ask him if he’d like to go out again. Show him you’re interested in him too.

[Anonymous]

I always let her decide. I'm not telling you what you should do. I'm just saying what I do. And my rationale behind it. Is I want HER to decide when she's comfortable with it.

[princeofromance]

Yes, you should make the move and see where it leads.

[Asker]

I thought that! But then I was also thinking.. if he was into me he would just ask me to meet again - no?

[princeofromance]

He is into you, but he wants to see if you are truly into him.

[Asker]

Thank you, appreciate the advice 😊

[princeofromance]

You are most welcome.

[Nikki1989]

Try being an adult and actually talk to this man.

[Valdemort]

Just ask if he'd still be open to a second date