Guys, Why he said this is step right?

[Anonymous]

So been seeing each other for years. We finally had unprotected sex. We both wanted to experience the natural with each other. He made comment it’s a step right. Is that emotional response and him letting me know he is trying to take steps with me on being more serious?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Out of all the things that could've been a step, sex without a condom was a step for him? I don't know your connection with him very well but I have a feeling there was other things y'all have done together that would have been more worthy of celebration than touching genitals without a condom, just sayin tho

[Asker]

Our connection is good but we are older and it’s been couple years and we haven’t not used a condom. So to me this was a step. My question is about him saying this is a step right? During sex

[ChicoFromThe305]

If you consider it a step then it's a step, I don't see what you don't understand about the statement

[Asker]

I am girl we don’t communicate same you men. So duh I ask

[Asker]

Whole point of this page is to ask for advice and insight I don’t get what huh don’t understand

[ChicoFromThe305]

He made it simple and easy to understand it's got nothing to do with gender, it's as simple as it sounds anon 😂

[Asker]

It does with gender one what. Is females don’t think the same way when he say those things at those times of sex

[ChicoFromThe305]

How would you take it then?

[Asker]

But thanks for berating my thoughts of questions.

[Asker]

During sex it’s confusing as what he means which kind of step. A step for us in sex or step for us in relationship

[ChicoFromThe305]

Its the same thing, sex is a part of intimacy in a relationship, it's meant to grow strength in a relationship, once you start separating them you start over complicating things

[Asker]

I wasn’t separating them I am sorry but your thinking is not at all aligned

[ChicoFromThe305]

You just sperated them

[Jonnywayne]

Sure. If you both have deliberately unprotected sex. You both know potentially consequences. Getting pregnant or making a girl pregnant, means to undertake responsibility. For the guy it means, he should be ready to take care for the girl and maybe for a family.

[Asker]

Thank you this is great answer. And he said tonight but least we took a step in the right direction so he is thinking about it from all aspects

[Jonnywayne]

I hope you'll be lucky🙏

[Anonymous]

He wants to have a family with you.

[Asker]

Well he didn’t finish in me he had to still finish in a condom so we experience the raw side to a point

[Asker]

Guess for me is this a step to him in our relationship?

[Anonymous]

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