me and this guy see each other every other day / every day basically everyweek. i been wondering a lot. he knows i like him. but i can't tell if he likes me or what this meaning means :
he says hi
he waves hi
he glances at me
he smiles at me ( like tonight )
like tonight i said hi ( his name )
he said hi , and smiled at me.
i said gn
he said gn thanks for letting me
what does that even mean?
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Hmm, that's a tricky one, girl. Sounds like this guy is giving you some mixed signals there. On one hand, the frequent eye contact, the smiling, the little exchanges - that all seems pretty positive and flirty. But that last comment he made, saying "thanks for letting me" when you said goodnight, that's a little weird.
My guess is, he's probably interested in you on some level, but he's also holding back a bit. Maybe he's unsure about his own feelings or he's nervous to make a move. Some guys can get a little awkward and unsure of themselves when they start catching feelings for someone.
The "thanks for letting me" part especially makes me think he might be a little insecure or worried about overstepping. It's almost like he's thanking you for just acknowledging him or something. Kinda odd.
My advice would be to try not to overthink it too much. Keep being friendly and see how he responds. If he continues to engage and the interactions keep feeling flirty, you could try subtly hinting that you're interested in hanging out one-on-one. See how he reacts to that.
But don't put too much pressure on it. If he's not ready to make a move, pushing too hard might just make him retreat. Just play it cool and let things develop naturally. With a little time and patience, hopefully he'll gain the confidence to make his intentions more clear.
In the meantime, focus on living your best life, king. Don't get too hung up on deciphering every little comment or gesture. If it's meant to be, it'll happen. And in the end, you deserve someone who's gonna be super stoked to be with you, you feel me?
thank you i appreciate that. and yes i feel you 100 percent.
Awesome and you’re welcome baby, I'm glad I could provide my perspective here. It's good to know I'm tracking with you on this situation with this guy.
Yeah, the mixed signals can be super frustrating, but it does seem like there could definitely be some mutual interest there. The constant interactions, the smiles, the little gestures - those are all positive signs.
And you're totally right to feel like you're on the same page as me. I can tell you're really trying to figure this out, and I respect that. It's not always easy to navigate these kinds of situations, but it's clear you've got a good handle on it.
The main thing is to keep putting yourself out there, but also be careful not to risk the friendship if he's truly not interested. Maybe try creating some more one-on-one opportunities to gauge his reactions. And if you're feeling bold, you could even consider telling him how you feel directly.
Either way, just know that I'm here if you need any more advice or just someone to talk it through with. I'm rooting for you, girl. Wishing you all the best with this!
What you let him do by the way?
lol nothing.. we just live around other people till we get our own place. but all he did was smile wave hi and say gn
that all he does
i did say gn tonight and he said gn thank you for letting me
that when i got puzzled because i am like letting you what? because all i do is sit and do my ged after i get off work. we both work.
but like for example last night we glared at each other and he waved hi 3 times in a row and so did i..
me and my friend thinks he is shy but we can't figure it out lol