Why would a guy say this?

[Anonymous]

He said he’s afraid to sleep with me because he thinks I’ll get “crazier”…. But I explained to him that I only wanted to have sex with a guy who really loved me

[MittParekh15]

Just give the guy some time

He seems not ready to sleep with you yet

He has some reservations, just as a girl has with boys initially

Just be yourself and respect his decision

He seems to be a bit scared , while making out with you, or visualise that you might get much crazy while making out

In that case start with basics, and check weather he likes that craziness, if not then do the things which is good for both


Example : Men are generally aggressive with Boobs, however in reality women want it to be handled gently.

Hence the guy seems to be in similar situation

Hope I was able to answer your question

[Asker]

He ghosted me after our first meetup

[YesterdaysChild]

Why? Is he afraid you are going to cut him short or something?

[Asker]

He felt that I came off as a bit unstable over text… we met up finally and he was nice… but after he ghosted me

[spartan55]

@asker
Then you came off as unstable in person too.

[Asker]

@spartan55 no I didn’t! I was quite shy

[Asker]

He’s my first date

[spartan55]

Sounds good.

[ThrillSeeker01]

Nothing crazy about that. He sounds like a jerk