There was a guy who i have been talking to here and there but one day we were messaging each other and he starts to get a bit flirt (more so sexual) and when i confronted him (i was a bit uncomfortable since i am not use to this kind of thing) about it he goes “i dont feel like you have experienced intimacy withq guy before that is why i haven't thought about doing that”
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This guy is a moron. Why would it matter to him if you have or haven't experienced intimacy? What does it have to do with the fact that HE doesn't have social decorum when dealing with a woman? TF, I thought we were past making assumptions about women's sexual life and making judgements based off of that
The thing with guys in general who are online looking for satisfying their urges is they'll be respectful and sweet as long as you're playing along with whatever they do or say.
The moment you say no to something or stop playing along they'll react by saying the weirdest of stuff and even cussing.
So don't get surprised by what he said. Glad he didn't say something more derogatory.
Guys will always lead conversations towards sex and if one gets offended or even tells one off, they get into defence mode playing the manipulative approach trying to convince you why you are like you are. In my past I used to feel like that too given maybe how openly female youths are these days and in your end you believe if one is not like the rest, she must be inexperienced.
Obviously a very bad thought and not acknowledging that people are different.