Why do guys do this? That seems like such a waste of time.
They should just let the other person go if they don't want anything or just keep saying that it can't happen "at the moment" because of x and y.
If I had a nickel for every time I hit it off with a guy but then they'd tell me that they can't date me cos I'm too far or smth (even when I didn't even imply anything about dating them), I'd have 2 nickles. Which isn't much but it's weird that it happened twice.
Because they are trying to get the sex without the accountability and responsibility a relationship would bring with it. This is little more than high-grade manipulation. Apparently quite skillfully because they have succeeded in you calling it a “situationship” (quite literally one of the dumbest things I have ever heard of) and believing you have some special place to them. It’s the ultimate player move.
They still want attention/validation
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good flirting is never a waste of time... it's fun... :D
Why does he have to let you go? You can't go no contact with him? I dont get why you can't just walk away.
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