Do you purposely look for a guy who has the same or higher level of intelligence as you?
Or do you prefer to date a guy who's not as intelligent as you?
Or something else entirely?
I'm just curious...how important is intelligence in a guy to a smart girl?
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No, I don't think I could. Interesting, stimulating, and intellectual conversation is very important to me. The guy I date has to have a good mind. That doesn't necessarily mean they have to have good grades though. My boyfriend was about a B average, while I'm an A average, but I know he's capable of getting A's, it's just not as important to him. My ex actually is taking a year off of college because of bad grades, but he's one of the most brilliant people I know, got excellent grades in high school, and understands things quickly. Anyway, I guess the point I'm trying to make is that you can't really measure intelligence. It's almost more of a compatibility thing.
I've definitely been attracted to guys who aren't as "intelligent", but I just don't think it could work to have a relationship with one of them, because we'd be thinking on different levels. We wouldn't have anything to say to each other.0