What's the most struggling part of dating and building intimacy emotionally?

[HaiTsiis]

[ohsheeT]

Well there's only a struggling part if you make it a struggling part you have to be patient you have to have respect you have to be able to come one with her and she has to feel that she needs to feel that bond that trust you say the word struggling because you want something and she's not ready for it probably and you need to respect that you want it to last and become the way you want it to become or the way that she wants it you just have to be patient and meanwhile give her what she needs through trust respect gentle words..

There's so many guys that go through the same thing except for you use the word struggling they use the word b**** probably and then they start giving the girl a hard time and they just create all this drama because they were what they want when they want it and if I was a girl I would say f*** you too because it doesn't work that way

Most guys think just because they want something they should they deserve it or they're going to get it now it doesn't work that way you need to prove yourself on who you are and girls should make it that way or I think some girls should and if they've been hurt before they have every right to do what they're doing and if you really care you'll chill out and relax and just be yourself and when it happens it happens you can't force it to happen if you do it's just not going to work anyway

[Anonymous]

Finding a woman who isn't completely full of 💩. You find the right woman and it's pretty much cream cheese. But trying find that woman is a nightmare.

[SueShe]

I don't date but I read extensively here on G@G what the problems are, mainly seen from the point of view of women.

It appears that men, or at least a great number of them, have a hard time accepting rejection and believe it is a direct attack on their person if a girl does not respond positively on their advances.

Also, it seems that men tend to want to fornicate right from the start, at the first date. That is something that women prefer to leave for subsequent dates as they are the ones bearing all the dangers and negative outcome of copulation.

Women need to build up emotional connections first while men are the ones that "fire and forget", meaning that they want the physical connection first rather than the emotional one like women do.

As long as men cannot understand that getting into the pants of a woman is not the first priority of a woman when dating, then there will be struggle.

[Nikki1989]

Genuine connection and lasting relationships are built on a foundation of mutual respect, shared values, and emotional intimacy is the obvious correct answer.

Ignore the bitter trolls on here who spew out anti-woman garbage just because they don't have what it takes to get one.

[On_cloud_wine]

If there’s any kind of resistance or struggle, maybe you should be together.

[On_cloud_wine]

shouldn't*

[In_Trance]

There isn't one