I am a hot guy, yet can't get a girlfriend?

[sprotz]

I am tall slim 6'/183cm, mixed race, everyone says I am very handsome, and I have that innocent look in me, but I am very shy quiet, and reserved. Girls always giggled at me in high school, but I did not like most of them, and I was too scared of approaching girls and they never approached me. I am too shy. Even if I did approach, i have no courtship skills , would not know what to say, I would be very socially awkward. After high school I left the country and never bothered approaching anyone, even when during all those years several girls showed interest. That is partly why I am still single, even when on a rare occassion a girl somehow manages to talk to me, I do not reciprocate to continue a conversation because I had decided it was too late, and I did not want to get hurt. it seems, it doesn't matter if you are a tall hot guy when you don't have game. I just wasn't born with it.

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I hear them laugh, to tell the truth I enjoy the sound of a female laugh, it is song like and pleasant to hear, but it's not comfort enough.

[Zack-Bann]

Its not enough to be tall dark and handsome mate. Trust me.
Im even taller than you and struggled all the way till I was 22.


You have to get proactive.


Yes they laugh but they forget you when they walk away.
You need to chat them up. Get their numbers. Text. Setup dates. Go on those dates. Escalate the romance. seal the deal.
It’s a game made of multiple rounds and you can’t just wish for it to fall into your lap. You gotta go get it

[beefcakebradybatson]

As a fellow handsome Brady, often girls are intimidated by too-good-looking guys, thinking they'll leave them for a hotter chick. You should try to get a girl by being humourous, light-hearted and boyish, three traits plenty of women love about such men.

[MissTrix]

This is a mytale dude and agree your not hot unless you can talk with girls! Most Japanese guys have this issue!

Anime reflects this it's up to the girls

[beefcakebradybatson]

Japanese guys? I'm part Canadian and part American, but perhaps it applies to us older dudes here.

[MissTrix]

@beefcakebradybatson saying that a lot of. poeple. are. shy and it's not just you

[beefcakebradybatson]

But I'm speaking of really handsome chaps such as I.

[HungTexan]

Quit being shy and grow some balls. You’ll have plenty of girls.

[In_Trance]

You answered your own question