Why am I unable to get a girlfriend?

[Sammielove]

I've been hearing the saying “everything comes at its own time" but in my case it's taking forever. I don't even know what's right anymore.

When I see a girl I like, I feel so heavy to say a word, this has happened to me like 10 times already.

Till now I still don't have an experience of what a relationship is, so tiring.

What do you think is wrong? Please advise me

[Changiis07]

Everything does come in time but maybe you need to work on it. Try not to force it and try to make friends with them first. You are prob not that comfortable yet but trust me everything takes time. We are all a work in progress in certain areas. Try looking up some helpful youtube videos on how to approach women and make it your goal for this year. If it's easier to talk to older ladies first then do so, the goal is to get comfortable so you are able to approach women without being weird

[Sammielove]

Thank you, I'll follow your advice.

[Kate090]

You’re only 22, you’re still really young. I still haven’t found the right person for me and I’m 26. Your time will come, be patient.

[Anonymous]

They don't love us mate. They don't feel what we feel towards them.
As soon as you can benefit them financially or with other resources or the things, that money can buy, then they're talking about love.
Real love is limited in the movies and videogames.

[jahaims]

You have too high of standards or you aren't appealing or you don't put effort into the right things

[Sammielove]

I've been trying to improve my sense of approaching ladies. Maybe I'll be bold and brave.

[Anonymous]

I hate human nature for being this way but it'll never change

[Sammielove]

I guess that's the way it is 🤔

[Opinion Owner]

That's kind of what I was saying, I never liked it but it'll never go away

[Subarugirl]

How often do you ask a girl out!

[Sammielove]

I rarely do. I try several times to get myself to do it but I hate being turned down. So I am like that all time and haven't improved. What do you advise I do please?

[In_Trance]

Chill. Part of your problem is desperation

[Subarugirl]

Wanting someone doesn’t make you desperate

[In_Trance]

@Subarugirl it absolutely does and it's the fundamental difference between people who are hopelessly alone and ones that are in relationships. It's also no secret that once you're in a relationship you get hit on a lot. The reason is lack of desperation.

[Subarugirl]

I want a good relationship with my parents even though I don’t have one, I can assure you that Doran make me desperate

[In_Trance]

@Subarugirl that's a very different thing and you can't compare the two

[Dingdonginmymouth]

I can’t find a boyfriend. Sucks

[Sammielove]

So girls experience this too?