Why can't I get a girlfriend?

[surgent]

I try my best but I can't get a girlfriend even if I flirt with them... Each time, there is some point that we don't get along with and we break up...

[blunty]

There can be numerous reasons why someone might find it challenging to secure a romantic relationship. First and foremost, it's crucial to understand that self-worth is not determined by relationship status. Some potential factors include:

A lack of self-esteem can impact one's ability to approach or engage in meaningful relationships. Difficulty in expressing oneself or understanding others can also be a barrier.

Unrealistic standards or comparing oneself to others can hinder genuine connections.

Previous negative experiences might influence current relationship pursuits.

The spaces (both physical and online) where one spends time might not be conducive to meeting potential partners. Life can be unpredictable, and sometimes the timing just isn't right. One might be in a phase of personal development that's best suited for solitude.

However, it's essential to remember that everyone's journey is unique. Reflecting on personal goals, working on self-improvement, and seeking professional advice, if needed, can be beneficial. Relationships should complement life, not define it.

[Ozanne]

What kind of women are you going for exactly? Usually when I see men your age say that they try this hard, they haven't been expanding their search. Many women respond well to flirting, but if you limit what sorts of women you do this with, you have a lesser chance at success.

[lilyanony1]

Hmmm... Are you sociable?

Are you actively going on dates?

Groomed?

Are you nice, too nice?

Are you too available?

Are you shy?

Are you expressive?

Do you live alone?

[msc545]

You might be really hard to get along with or you might be picking women that are really hard to get along with. Or both things could be true. If you have any friends, try to get some feedback from them. Regarding your question here. They probably know you better than all of us do. Good luck!

[msc545]

Thanks for MHO

[Anonymous]

Probably because women don’t like men much anymore and they don’t even like sex either so it’s very hard out there

[HelpfulWoman]

"break up"... so you can get a girlfriend. its more a matter of keeping them?

[annabananna]

We don’t know you. Ask someone that knows you and isn’t afraid to be honest with you.

[Lady_Heart]

Maybe u should ask them when they r breaking up with you what u did wrong or what went wrong

[Reem12345reem]

fix/heal from your negative beliefs about relationships and your parent's relationship

[Nikki1989]

It could be your problem, or it could be their problem. It is really hard to say.

[Anonymous]

just focus on hooking up with girls




Nobody needs a girlfriend


But,




Everyone needs Sex

[Opinion Owner]

in conclusion, just focus on getting sex

[CrimsonAngel09]

Relationships isn't all about sex. You want just sex, brothels and prostitutes are available.

Otherwise, don't get into a relationship kid.

[Opinion Owner]

relationships are about sex, if no sex is involved its a friendship

[Noether]

@Zachgoat308 And if there’s nothing but sex involved it’s a hookup.

[Tamera952]

Guess he should just order a fleshlight & call it a day, right?

[Opinion Owner]

a flesh light is not the same as a pussy, a flesh light is artificial and not satisfying

[butterly248]

It'll be when the time is right

[gorydetails]

I don't know, maybe you’re an asshole?