Thoughts on a Christian dating a Muslim man?

[Anonymous]

[IslaTheWitch]

it depends on so many variables...

let's start with his family, as Muslim people's families are really close... if they are not extremists and accept their children's choices... that's good... it happens where I live... they let their daughters wear what they want, without hijab... they let them date boys they like, etc... boys can date girls they like... so if the family is not extremist, it can work...

another thing is his upbringing and the values he was exposed to... even if not extremist, he still can not value a woman's opinion, and he still can be aggressive and even abusive... there is also a thing about understanding that his values can be different or even opposite to the values of the person he dates... how would he deal with it? (sorry for pointing out the bad things, but those are the common reasons for divorcing Muslim people in Europe...) so, if he is a reasonable man and can align and compromise... it can work...

now...

the Christian... the thing about the family stays the same... if the family is open, understanding, and accepting - it can work...

if the Christian person is open to accept the differences in the belief systems and give up the church wedding in the future... it can work...

there is one huge difference... in all known to me situations... the Christian family was giving up the member who wanted to be with a person of other beliefs... and Muslim families fight for their members fiercely...

[Valdemort]

My thoughts on it don't matter, compatibility between you two does. Either one of you is likely gonna have to convert, in my experience, and the question is- will you?
More often than not, relationships like these (especially when religion plays a big part) you're gonna have a tough time, simply because of religious/ cultural differences. It might be worth the try, but that's up to you to decide.

[Anonymous]

Your Demise, He isn't going to convert for you..

You will be persuaded into conversation and after few years will have only 2 options-

1) forced to Share one husband with 3 Other Women, which will definitely be Younger than you , she could even be 18 or as Young as 9yr old.

2) If you Don't Let him, He will "Talaque" you , and in Divorce you by saying "Talaque " 3 times.. Leaving you as a Divorcee..

In the end, you will be left with Compromised or Broken Relationship, and Definitely You will have Lost Your religion and no Community of People helping you.

Even if you after he Forces Divorce on you, and you want to Get back with him, you will have to go through "Halala" basically marry another men and that men will sleep with you once or Multiple times and then he will divorce you..

And if you ever Try to Leave Islam after converting, You will be Killed. Lot of Ex-Muslims I know were Killed. So there is no Way back to Converting to Christianity or any other religion..

[Opinion Owner]

I am not hating on Islam, Just Giving out straight Facts!..

If you don't convert to Islam before marrying, your marriage is not possible and Not valid.

If I were in your shoes, I would prefer to Skydive and Plummet to death, as it will be less painful than being and Islamic women, used like a Cow to produce 6-7 Islamic Kids..

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO!..

Just don't give MHO, Follow this advice. Stay away from Islam..

Islam is Declaring War on all Nations That aren't islamic.. and they will be Targeted soon by government and all communities Globally.

You do not want to be Caught up in the Next Big war WW3

[Zack-Bann]

Big mistake if you’re actually a practitioner of your faith and him of his.


Im a Christian who barely ever prays and I tried dating a muslim girl.
Religion eventually got in the way.
She began slowly dropping hints about me converting not understanding that I would rather not be disowned by my family over some religion.


And as soon as I pictured my kids being muslims my stomach turned into a thousand knots.


I eventually had to break up with her even though she was very sweet and loved me earnestly

[LazerBean]

Inevitable failure, unless one of you isn't serious about their religion at all.

[molonski2]

Cannot be done unless you miss to convert and are happy with multiple wives in the future.

[Knightwatch27]

How many times must we state the obvious. Are you incapable of basic reasoning or reading your Bible, or even reading up on how the quran treats women?

No.

[Anonymous]

I'm a Muslim guy, have dated with a Christian lady before. I can even marry a Christian lady if she is traditional, loyal and we have mutual understanding without her being converting.

[Anonymous]

Unless he's open to becoming a Christian I'm not really sure what is going through her head.

[Intheclouds00]

You have to convert

[In_Trance]

Have fun at church

[Anonymous]

Big mistake