Boyfriend went back on dating app because I didn’t trust him, didn’t go out with him d/t jealousy, starting ish and being negative?

[Anonymous]

And controlling him when he goes out with friends and talk on phone with family (all according to him) I saw him looking at women a couple times that’s why I’m jealous and also I felt like he prioritize him family and friends over me. I agreed to go outside with him and be less jealous and more trusting but now I’m feeling paranoid when he leaves my side. I live with him and hard to find a cheap place

[ohsheeT]

You know what don't be paranoid make up your mind when you feel something deep it's usually pretty true and if you can't look at you straight in the eyes and reinsure you and prove it to you just by his actions then you're probably right so do whatever you can to save your money and walk away I mean you're living with a guy and he goes back on a dating site come on you know what's going on just give it together you don't have to argue about anything you don't even have to communicate to him about it because he's not going to change he's just proved to exactly who he is by going back on that dating app and you don't even want that type of person in your life you want a person in your life that you're going to figure it out together and there's a trust in a bond and a commitment and communication and just you become one you can't become one with somebody like that so keep it together do whatever you can to save money and make it a priority and get out of there so you can start living life again and try to smile I know it's hard but just get it together like I said and do it I mean make it a priority because it's just going to take you down further and further and it's going to be too hard to get back up in one day he just might say get out and you want to be prepared you want to get out before that even happens

[Summeroflove]

He’s going to be going behind your back anyways and probably has physically cheated in the small chance he hasn’t he probably will.

You would be happier single then in this toxic relationship so it’s time to end things before you’re one absolutely miserable human being.

[Zack-Bann]

God my worst fear is to break up with a girl I live with and we have to manage until one if us moves out


I dated a girl who still shared a sofa-bed with her ex once and I just felt so sad for him that I didn’t pursue her further
(Also she wasn’t my type and I had no intention of taking her off his hands, that’s just gross)


So yeah, i think its time for you to go if the relationship is over
No need to beat the corps any further

[Intheclouds00]

Dude's a narcissist at best maybe a f****** sociopathic psychopath I mean all the clear signs alienating and isolating controlling with emotional manipulation got you in a tailspin you can't figure out which way is up got you gas lit the hell you doing f****** with that s*** everyone knows the rule when you when you find out their narcissist you f****** run

[Asker]

lol I mean he said I’m controlling

[Intheclouds00]

Oh well f*** him he'll get over that s***

[Asker]

lol true

[Danny_dan92]

Your relationship is dead