Girls, we are on our first date and we are next to a group of guys our age and several are attractive. Should I feel threatened already?

[Anonymous]

[Abbycado]

Jesus, stop this crap. I know who you are, anon.

[Fanfare690]

Don't be insecure. She's on the date with you!! Not them!!!

[Asker]

But would she tempted to talk to them instead

[DishLady]

No. Why?

[Asker]

Because I have strep competition right next to me

[DishLady]

Either she’s into you or she’s not. Whatever or whoever is next to you doesn’t matter.

For instance, I was at an event surrounded by fantastic looking women — some clearly way easier access than I am as well — but the guy I was with didn’t look at a single one of them. The whole evening progressed and the one he chose to be around was me.

A person who looks around isn’t worth your time.

[Anonymous]

Oh, you again. Grow up dude.