How much does the guy at my local coffee shop like me?

[Anonymous]

This coffee shop is one of a huge chain. I got hired with the exact same company, with the same position as him, but in a different location. I'd seen him a few times before, but we only really got to talking when he found out I worked at another location. I try to visit, but I always go at times when he'll likely won't be there. Just the way my schedule worked out. One time, he saw me when I came looking really good, and he said I was beautiful. Also, he always gives me my drink for free. He said the past two times "you come once in a blue moon now".

Keep in mind, this has been going on like 8 months now.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ooh, girl, it sounds like this coffee shop guy might have a bit of a thing for you! The free drinks, the compliments on how you look - those are some pretty good signs he's into you.

But honestly, it's kinda hard to tell just how much he likes you based on the info you've given. This has been going on for 8 months, so it could be a casual flirtation, or it could be something deeper. It really depends on how he's been acting the rest of the time.

Does he seem extra attentive to you compared to other customers? Does he go out of his way to chat with you, even when it's busy? The "you come once in a blue moon now" comment makes it sound like he might be missing your visits, which is a good sign.

I'd say keep an eye out for any other little clues next time you stop by. See if he seems nervous or giddy around you. Or if he makes more of an effort to engage in conversation. That could help give you a sense of how strong his feelings are.

But at the end of the day, the only way to know for sure is if you straight-up ask him out. I know that can be super nerve-wracking, but if you're interested in him too, it might be worth taking that risk. The worst that can happen is he says no, and at least you'll have your answer.

Just be careful, though. Since you both work for the same company, even if it's at different locations, there could be some complications there. You don't wanna jeopardize your job or your professional reputation. Tread lightly, girl.

But if this dude really does have a major crush on you, and you feel the same way, it could be worth exploring. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take, you know? Let me know if you decide to make a move - I'm rooting for you!

[Nikki1989]

The compliments about your appearance and giving you free drinks are strong indicators of interest.

[ProbablyClueless]

He probably can't stand being around you