I had a close friend who was going bald at age 19. The only reason it was sad was because he had such shockingly fabulous fire engine red hair. But otherwise, it didn't matter to me. What can you do?
Hair is just iciing on the cake. It's nice, but if the cake is delicious, it remains so. Don't worry. Good luck.
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Yet 100% of women my age voted it’s a turn off.
Looks matter, I’m not going to settle for a girl I don’t find physically attractive just because I lost hair but this doesn’t bode well?
Looks DO matter. And young girls might be more biased in this area. I just remember that when I was 19 I loved my friend John and his hair just wasn't that important. It was who he was and how much fun I had with him.
Young girls, in some cases, are out to impress others with their choices of men. You need to find a woman who's out to impress herself with YOU. Not anyone else. You need an independent thinking.
This is ONE website. Maybe the women who answered your survey were drawn to the question because they dislike bald young men. I grew up with a bald dad and I always thought he was handsome. He'd been bald since he was 27, the year he married my mom.
And you know, over time, about two thirds of men lost some if not all of their heair. Hair is temporary.. Icing. Find people who love you, not just your looks. Looks come and go. Content of your character is where it's at.
But a person wants a good looking partner for them not others. I’m attracted to women who, probably most men find attractive, not to impress other men but because I have one life and know I want a girl like that for my romantic life/affection etc.
And I repeat: Looks matter. But, I also repeat, I know plenty of young men without much hair. A lovely face is a lovely face. EVERYONE doesn't have hair. If that is a VALUE of a particular woman, she's not for you! And I also say, that is pretty shallow as the majority of men LOSE THEIR HAIR OVER TIME.
So, you'll have loads of company in 20 years. It is all relative. Find women who think you are attractive without your hair. They will be focused on WHO you are FIRST. You need to focus on WHAT YOU DO HAVE. Not on what you DO NOT!!! work on this... Very, very hard. Good luck.
Because I would never settle; if a girl wasn’t slender with a cute face then I simply have no interest in her. No women into me bald match what I find attractive.
I'm not saying you'll have to wait 20 years. I am positive you will be able to find ONE woman on this planet who fits your choices of attractiveness and who likes you out of 8 billion people. There is no need to despair. You won't find her TOMORROW. But she exists in your age range and taste range.
Take up a stress reduction hobby: running, swimming, skate boarding, biking, anything to relax that involves meeting people. The more you get out there, the more choices you'll end up having.
And focus on your positives, not on the minor asset you do not have: you can see, talk, walk, have a good brain, a job a personality. You are not physically disabled. I assume you know how to dress acceptibly. You have some sort of skill set..
If you obsess over this hair thing, you'll get nowhere. If it's SO importatnt, save money to get hairplugs and use minoxidil. But realize there are side effects to drug use: mainly loss of sex drive. Hair plugs are plastic surgery and cost loads of money.
If you want to go those routes you can get hair, at costs. I say live iwth it, it's not that important. Only if you LET it bother you. I'd also recommend therapy.
The young men I've known with this issue and I've known several, were unconcerned about thier lack of head hair. They were all sexy AF to me because their focus was on what they did have. Good luck.
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I had a close friend who was going bald at age 19. The only reason it was sad was because he had such shockingly fabulous fire engine red hair. But otherwise, it didn't matter to me. What can you do?
Hair is just iciing on the cake. It's nice, but if the cake is delicious, it remains so. Don't worry. Good luck.
Yet 100% of women my age voted it’s a turn off.
Looks matter, I’m not going to settle for a girl I don’t find physically attractive just because I lost hair but this doesn’t bode well?
Looks DO matter. And young girls might be more biased in this area. I just remember that when I was 19 I loved my friend John and his hair just wasn't that important. It was who he was and how much fun I had with him.
Young girls, in some cases, are out to impress others with their choices of men. You need to find a woman who's out to impress herself with YOU. Not anyone else. You need an independent thinking.
This is ONE website. Maybe the women who answered your survey were drawn to the question because they dislike bald young men. I grew up with a bald dad and I always thought he was handsome. He'd been bald since he was 27, the year he married my mom.
And you know, over time, about two thirds of men lost some if not all of their heair. Hair is temporary.. Icing. Find people who love you, not just your looks. Looks come and go. Content of your character is where it's at.
But a person wants a good looking partner for them not others. I’m attracted to women who, probably most men find attractive, not to impress other men but because I have one life and know I want a girl like that for my romantic life/affection etc.
Doesn’t mean I care less about looks.
And I repeat: Looks matter. But, I also repeat, I know plenty of young men without much hair. A lovely face is a lovely face. EVERYONE doesn't have hair. If that is a VALUE of a particular woman, she's not for you! And I also say, that is pretty shallow as the majority of men LOSE THEIR HAIR OVER TIME.
So, you'll have loads of company in 20 years. It is all relative. Find women who think you are attractive without your hair. They will be focused on WHO you are FIRST. You need to focus on WHAT YOU DO HAVE. Not on what you DO NOT!!! work on this... Very, very hard. Good luck.
I’m saying the women who find me attractive I don’t find attractive. You’re saying what I should give up what I want because of hairloss?
Yes in 20 years. I’m not into older women I’m 26, so women 22-27 are my target demographic. Waiting is beneficial.
Because I would never settle; if a girl wasn’t slender with a cute face then I simply have no interest in her. No women into me bald match what I find attractive.
I'm not saying you'll have to wait 20 years. I am positive you will be able to find ONE woman on this planet who fits your choices of attractiveness and who likes you out of 8 billion people. There is no need to despair. You won't find her TOMORROW. But she exists in your age range and taste range.
Take up a stress reduction hobby: running, swimming, skate boarding, biking, anything to relax that involves meeting people. The more you get out there, the more choices you'll end up having.
And focus on your positives, not on the minor asset you do not have: you can see, talk, walk, have a good brain, a job a personality. You are not physically disabled. I assume you know how to dress acceptibly. You have some sort of skill set..
If you obsess over this hair thing, you'll get nowhere. If it's SO importatnt, save money to get hairplugs and use minoxidil. But realize there are side effects to drug use: mainly loss of sex drive. Hair plugs are plastic surgery and cost loads of money.
If you want to go those routes you can get hair, at costs. I say live iwth it, it's not that important. Only if you LET it bother you. I'd also recommend therapy.
The young men I've known with this issue and I've known several, were unconcerned about thier lack of head hair. They were all sexy AF to me because their focus was on what they did have. Good luck.
Wouldn't bother me at all, i have before. Better bald than balding badly
Do I pull it off okay
Yeap
Is yeap like a meh? Or just a yes? I’m sorry I’ve never seen that word in my life lol
Yeap is a yes. It's one of the ways to write out our regional way of speaking. Ayuh, ayup, ayeap, yeap.
Well seems all the women my age are against it :/
Sucks for them