Has anyone ever thought you were gay? How did/would you respond?

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Offended? Flattered? Annoyed because it always seems to happen?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

So many ways of having fun without having g intercourse or anal. There's dry humping. There's hj & bj for him, clit rubbing and finger banging for you. There's mutual masturbation. There's masturbating yourself while sucking him off. There's tittyfucking, basically you rub your boobs up and down the shaft of his penis until he cums, or he thrusts his penis in and out between your boobs until he cums. there's ass jobs, he can rub or you can twerk with his erection up against your butt or between the cheeks ( no anus penetration) until he cums. There's also cunninlingus for you.

Then there's thighjobs, you can put his erect penis between your thighs and let him thrust until he cums or you can move your thighs back and forth. You can do this in virtually any postion even wearing nylons or stockings or yoga pants if not bare skinned. If his penis is in the right postion it can rub up and down along your clit. An ex of mine like my yoga pants. Oh and you can also grind yourself on his thighs until you cum.

A favourite of mine is to get naked except for a little thong and rub baby oil all over him and me and rub my pussy up and down the shaft of his penis until he cums, facing him so he can see my boobs or facing the other way so he can see my butt.

In the old days our grandparents called this heavy petting, they did it to avoid having sex b4 marraige as it led to pregnancy and maybe they didn't want to marry each other just have fun.

Raxll11 · Accepted Answer

When I say I'm bisexual, I see many men trying to message me and ask me personal questions. These things appeal to them and some go beyond the boundaries of perversion and ask extremely disturbing questions and make fun of me. It's really bad that your orientation becomes a laughing stock for others and they think ridiculous things about you

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

Yes numerous times , from gays and some non gays ( mainly gays ) , a little shocked but too it as a compliment..

My UK girlfriend once told me " When I met you , I was certain you were gay " .. Really Why? " You were too well coordinated appearance wise , and your jeans were really tight " " You looked good , but like Oxford street Sydney " ( She loved Sydney ) ..

When did you think I wasn't? When we kissed? " No , when you were fcking the shit out of me that night " , and " Felt great when you told me you were not Bi " ..

Even here is Thai , maybe 2 years ago , this European bloke , quite young , working for one of the big chains ( buying a golf club from me.. obviously gay , over the top ) " Look I'm just going to come right out and say it , Could I buy you a drink sometime ( and started rubbing my arm ) " .. Super shocked , I politely declined and got the hell otta there , my girlfriend at the time thought it was hilarious , but that one , I felt a bit uneasy.

xkildy · Accepted Answer

Yep many times, 9/10 times it was a girl I was interested in. She was interested in me, but she was wanting to hook up. (Not started having sex really) I wanted to start a relationship. She asked me If I was Gay for not wanting to *bang* her. Another girl joined us in the house one day and she came over in just bra and very short shorts. I said girl you need to put some clothes on. She replied yep, his gay. NOPE 100 percent NOT. I said sorry for respecting you & walked out. I learned then keep my options to myself. LOL

Summeroflove · Answer

Not that I’m aware of… But just because someone else thinks something doesn’t make it true

Anonymous · Answer

Probably. I know I had a friend in school who's mother was the principal of another school and everyone at that school said he was gay. I knew he wasn't. But it did make me wonder if that made me guilty by association in thier minds.😆 Obviously I didn't care. I don't care if anyone thinks I'm gay. I mean, I wouldn't want everyone thinking I was for obvious reasons. But in general people are perfectly withing thier right to make as many false assumptions as they want. They're only making themselves look foolish.

Billlewis · Answer

I think it’s the guys who aren’t getting any, and have virtually no possibility of getting any that are often thought of as being gay or potentially gay, because if you can’t get any you-know-what, you’re more likely to become a sissy slut. I can’t really blame anyone for thinking that way; it’s just common sense.

Rainbow_Boy · Answer

As I was growing up, some people thought I was gay, some said I acted too girly. As I was confused at that time, I did not know how to respond. However, as I came out as a young adult, I now think people could see who I was before I could admit it to myself. In retrospection, I now take those comments as flattering, since I'm now proud of who I am.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Only once and that’s because I was new in the city and let a friend drag me into a gay bar without telling me beforehand.

So I let my guard down and this guy wanted to buy me drinks and flirt and all that

It was flattering to think that I can attract a gay dude as they do tend to be picky but also I was immediately uncomfortable and had to shut him down before he got the wrong idea

DrPepper12 · Answer

No. Hopefuls tho...

My fiances gay male friend said to me in front of her "When you break up give me a call. I'll treat you right!"

Still laugh about that 25+ years later. Wonder if he's waiting?

My HS boys were THE WORST tho! "Don't look at my girlfriend!" WTF dude? Someone else VALIDATES she's hot and YOU get to date her and you're upset over this? The lack of a prefrontal cortex in teenagers is real!!

dragoblack · Answer

Yep, many times. Mainly because i have fashion sence, understand color theory, dress well, and I'm not an arrogant asshole. I just take it as a compliment, inform them I'm hetero and have no interest in men romantically or sexually, but tell them "thank you for the compliment though"

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, it constantly happens. Just because I have a girlfriend, they assume I am 100% gay. I guess the concept of bisexuality flies over some heads.

MemeSupreme · Answer

yeah  i found it weird but in like a interesting way and not a bad one bc i wasn't expecting it

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

To be honest a good deal of people, including my wife and my mother, suspected I was gay when I was younger. I don't care honestly.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Yeah, a few people. Mostly gay people. Except for the two times I was violently attacked because of it, I've never been offended but, I've never been flattered, either.

Chartreux · Answer

No... I was pregnant with my daughters at 16, difficult for people to assume I am gay...

chrissykerdock · Answer

i guess this women who made out with me did

satinpetals · Answer

I had girls in college think I was a lesbian or at least bi before I realized I was bi myself

Ethan_T · Answer

people at school called me gay before but I don't think they really thought it I think they just were trying to be mean and thought it would make me mad but I dident care

Oldschool1981 · Answer

All the time because my nails are long and painted. However, I'm completely straight and married. It doesn't bother me if people think I'm gay.

Jennz6 · Answer

I’m bi, and people ask me if I am a lesbian. They don’t know that a lot of girls are bisexual

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

One of my sisters suggested to my mother that I'm gay because I liked to hang out with my best buddy, like me a lifelong bachelor.(We're both string-straight and LOVE buxom babes).

Anonymous · Answer

This rarely happens unless the person knows I’m bi. It doesn’t bother me at all.

Uglygaypoorcoward94 · Answer

Everyone thinks or knows im gay. Im not asked im told.

Professor-college · Answer

That has never happened.. I would probably just laugh if a girl thought i was

Apple1996 · Answer

My whole high-school thought I was lesbian

Yannae · Answer

Yeah. I just said no. What else is there to say.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Not to my knowledge. I wouldn't care.

GrinchyTsy · Answer

A lot of women flirt with me 😜. I am ok with it

SleepingHazard · Answer

Not that I know of.

hello4433 · Answer

Nope

Anonymous · Answer

Thank God no!

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