Story time.
So I met someone amongst others while out and I thought he was gay. That was my impression of him. He had a certain way of speaking and used wayyy too much gestures his clothing was a bit meh. not flashy but tshirts with prints on them are quite dated. And on his IG he had highlights saying feeling cute that include himself in filters and selfies. even his stories used cute templates and stickers.
I started talking to this person cause I thought we could be friends. And I really thought he was gay! I Don't really believe in girls and guys bring bff's but just talking sometime yes but bffs. But since in my eyes he was gay I thought let's befriend him I like this guy. and for a week I thought so. Till he told me he dated girls and had relationships with them (he never mentioned guys). I was bamboozled, I was still in touch with him and then one day he tells me he likes me. ahaha and I told him I saw us as just friends he showed no reaction and it made me wonder if what was saying was true or not. But overall yeah that happened.
I swear made nothing to lead him on and even now we are still talking I don't know if he still likes me if he wanted a fuck buddy or if he is just lonely. But I'm made it clear to him on several occasions that I seem him as a friend and I don't want to complicate things. after he said liked me my my attitude change I'm more careful with what I say and and I don't really want to go out with him now just the two of us. It's just not that comfortable anymore. I really thought he was gay. He even told me guys treated him to drinks and and texted him. So I'm not crazy for thinking so of even gay people caught him on their radar without even having interaction. And he is always the one initiating texts I usually send reels and memes. Right now I'm trying to put some distance to get him really to understand that I don't like him that way and never will.
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