Why do women have a crush on gay men often?

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Why do women have a crush on gay men often?
I have some theories why women tend to crush on gay men often.

(1) I have the feeling, that gay men simply don't care. They dress how they want, they wear pink if they want, may look like metrosexuals to the others, are certainly more interested in beauty than the ordinary heterosexual guys, who wear just the same old clothes for years. Which gives them gays the upper hand.

(2) They do not feel the need to preserve or prove their "masculinity" or that they are "straight" and as such being called gay for them is like calling a man a man. Like is that supposed to be offensive? Perhaps even better when those supposed insults fall off like it's nothing.

(3) Gay men probably also tend to better take care of themselves and invest into self-care products and services. Ever seen men going to beauty parlors or massage parlors?

(4) Gay men have likely no ulterior motives to compete for women (they don't want to sleep with them) and are probably also unlikely to be the aggressive type. Thus I think women perceive them as more comfortable to be around with and not so volatile.

So in comparison my theory is that "ordinary" men do not go through such lengths or chill the F out. Other than some social stigmas in certain areas the gays tend to find problems, where straight men can't even look at. For example: Why all clothing stores dedicate only 20% maximum of their space for unisex/men's section? Because most men don't care.

Here's an article I found for it: https://newrepublic.com/article/129147/science-behind-straight-womens-love-gay-men
Why do women have a crush on gay men often?
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