Did I just turn this gay guy straight 🤔🤔// is that even possible?

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Have you been in a similar situation? 🤔

Basically, the guy that i had sex with, he's had a few boyfriends and said that he's mostly/only fucked other men. I think its possible that i was the first ever girl that he had sex with, and everyone says that he's completely gay. (See my other questions for more imformation). Before sex, he seemed a bit tense/nervous, but now after sex, he seems happier around me & more comfortable & also more respectful towards me, surprisingly 🤔. I feel like he probably has a genuine liking towards me. I'm confused because i thought he was completely gay. And by the way, he's my assistant manager haha.

~why did he choose me over other girls?
~he also seems completely grossed out by other girls, so why did he fuck me?
🤔🤔 im so surprised by this!

Sbgirl · Accepted Answer

I am going to guess the most likely scenario is that when he started having an attraction for men, he assumed he was gay, but remained curious and now realises he is bisexual.
A lot of people probably believed he was full-on gay because he has been with men. People have a harder time believing men are bi then they do women it seems. If women experiment with women it never seems a huge deal, but if a guy gets with a guy, he must be gay.
As for why he feels happier around you, could be numerous reasons. Maybe he feels happier because you have made him realise he is actually bi. Maybe even you made him realise he is actually straight and that those times with guys were experimentation. Maybe he had been wanting to try out sleeping with a woman for a while and was nervous about it, so now that has been lifted off his shoulders whatever his feelings towards you are.
As to your other questions, he may have chosen you as you say he is your assistant manager and had the opportunity to get close to you. He may have also acted grossed out by other girls in an attempt to fight off any attraction towards them, or he just was genuinely grossed out by a few.

AzureGirl · Accepted Answer

If he had sex with you then he was not gay, he’s bisexual. If you didn’t hear he’s gay come from his own mouth then don’t believe rumors. Sometimes bisexuals have a preference in gender they date/have sex with, they just like one over the other. Sounds like he has a larger preference for men and found you attractive.

Piteka5 · Accepted Answer

It's an odd event for sure, for what is known homosexuality means the sexual stimuli are just swapped and you get activated by your own gender. So this means he probably A) developed a connection with you that is not primarily sexual in nature, and more emotional (as in feeling love first and passion later) or B) those first sexual experiences, happening with other men, made him subconsciously see that as the norm.

I don't know for sure, it's a topic I will only work on for my masters next year

pigoat · Accepted Answer

He's bi and prefers men big time it seems

If people thought he was gay probably because of the way he acts

People thought i was gay just because i hung out with a guy who was supposedly gay

I met many guys like him who prefer men and girls mostly disgust them except for the special ones

jgibsonian1986 · Answer

Sure. Gender is a social construct and is completely different from biological sex. It's completely made up and has no real world quantifiable corilation to people. You could have turned a gay man into a effervescence magma stone who has a particular interest in you if it satisfys you lol. Gender and sexuality are meaningless man-made concepts, men and women were obviously made to biologically be fundemental to each others sexual and mental health, that's a fact.

spaz17 · Answer

Wait let me see if i got this right! Ur 19 ur a stripper u had sex with ur boss and u believe that u have the golden vagina and u think that u turned him? Bc at 19 u have something that no woman has? Im sorry i find this hilarious... let me clue u in... he's BI and im sure he has had sex plenty of times with both sexes... pussy is pussy the only time its magically is when deep love is evolved but you will someday understand that when you mature and get to that point in your life! Great sex comes with love and feelings other than that my dear its just f*****g and anybody get do that. Sorry if i sound harsh but im just speaking the truth.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe a bit bi or fluid meaning he's going to care about the person not necessarily the gender. He's not straight he's somewhere on the spectrum leaning closer to gay than straight. Some people will have sex with the same gender but prefer emotional relationships with opposite gender.

Latino202p · Answer

U can't change a gay guy. He is experimenting of coarse an is alittle bi.. and with gay guys even if they sleep around they will always be friendly and hold onto their friends or flings.. and dont screw around with work people.. it never ends good

ksmiller · Answer

No, if he were gay he wouldn't have put his dick anywhere near your vagina. Just cause people tell you he is fully gay doesn't mean he is. The fact that he even entertained the idea of sex with you means that he is Bi.

Massageman · Answer

Of course it's possible.
Consider the possibility that he was NOT homosexual, but, somehow, was having doubts put in his mind somehow. Being with you must have removed at least some of those doubts! You certainly look nice enough to turn my head - If I were single again, of course.

Apope16 · Answer

He probably is actually bisexual and didn't realize it. There are guys like that. Or he is gay and is just trying to fit in with society by suppressing his gay desire.

slatyb · Answer

Straight? Almost certainly not. If he was attracted to men in the past, he's still attracted to them. Bisexual? Evidently.

Joker_ · Answer

I've been in a similar situation, so you can trust me when I say this: yes, you did; you turned that gay guy straight - hence, it's definitely possible.

CaptainOverthink · Answer

I dont think it all black&white. He could be bisexual but generally prefers men. Or he's experimenting and feel more intimate and safe with you now that you've shared that experience.

bluehen46 · Answer

Its possible he might not have been gay but experimenting. I understand that happens particularly now with young people and our society's "if it feels good do it"

Mollynotgemma · Answer

He doesn’t care that your female... he loves and sees people as who they are spiritually and not physically!

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

He chose you cause he's attracted to you  he got taste of a Woman now he may have change of Heart? It's really hard to say?

Potatocream · Answer

I really need to know your tricks 😂 how the fuck do you get everyone obsessed with you 😂 only you could turn a gay guy straight lmao you gotta get in my DMs I have so many questions

TallAnon · Answer

You can't turn anyone, he's probably just bi and was unaware.

jjj101010 · Answer

Hard to know why he chose u without seeing the competition.

Jackblue · Answer

Such things are not unheard of. Bill De Blasio's wife Chirlane McCray used to consider herself a lesbian.

Shy_Steve · Answer

A lot of the time you girls think that a Guy is Gay when he actually isn't. Have you ever heard of a Gay Guy becoming straight?, I haven't.

Lynx122 · Answer

Yes, you have a magical vagina congrats :D

SexyAshh · Answer

he's probably bisexual and didn't know

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