I can't stand my girlfriend gay best friend?

[Anonymous]

So I'm not homophobic at all, but my girlfriends best friend is really annoying and it bothers me a lot. First of all he doesn't have any filter at all he talks about everything with not even a little bit of class or pose, especially his sex life, he is so inappropriate it's unbelievable all the conversations with him always end up there, then he is really arrogant and conceived he thinks he is really hot and stuff, then he is basically a slut always having sex with different men and taking drugs and he is a little diva we can't go to certain places with him because is no " good enough" for him or is to " loweish middle class", a couple of days ago my girlfriend told me that she made out with him ( we weren't together back then) in a drunk night to prove to some guys that were hitting on her that they were a couple, that made me hate him even more for some reason and probably one of the most annoying things ever is that he is always hitting on me and my friends, being to touchy and indecent according to him " no one is straight after 2 pints" so he thinks he can turn everyone gay.

My girlfriend adores him and she finds the whole thing hilarious so I don't know what to do, I think he is a terrible influence for her

[jmowen]

Holy run-on sentence! :O

Anyway, I know how you feel. At first, I wasn't real comfortable being around gay people because I had never interacted with them. But after a while I got accustomed to it and still to this day have a few good gay friends that are both male and female. The only thing I ask of them is that the men don't try anything or come on to me or my friends.

I can understand how your girlfriend's friend annoys you. Gay or not, the kind of characteristics he has is really off-putting. I suggest tell your girlfriend how you feel and maybe she'll talk to him about it. Or you talk to him about it and ask him nicely that he doesn't act the way he does around you. Or simply don't hang out with him. The downside to the last one is your girlfriend is most likely still going to want to hang out with him and she may not be happy about you not wanting to hang out with him and may get the wrong idea.

As for the kiss in the past thing, I wouldn't worry about it. It's in the past and they did so that guys would stop hitting on her. You should sort of be grateful that because if they didn't do that, your girlfriend could've very well had a new boyfriend that night or had a negative experience so they made the best of the situation.

[Cromartie]

Kill him.

If that isn't an option just start declining being around him and openly say you don't like him. Remember: If your girlfriend likes an extremely arrogant moron odds are she might grow from her loins an extremely arrogant moron. :( You don't want that, do you?

[justme52196]

Well it's really nice that you've been kind of putting up with it just for her, butt everyone had their limits and breaking points. I think you need to definitely sit down and talk to her about it and tell her how he makes you feel etc. Don't sugar coat anything because she needs to know EXACTLY how he bothers you and stuff. I mean she can't get mad at you for not liking someone! That's your own opinion of him and you have the right to have it.

p.s. he does sound very obnoxious and if that were me in the situation, I'd definitely sit down and talk to my boyfriend about it. :)

[Anonymous]

i think he is either bi or pretending to be gay in order to stay close to your girl! I think you should set him straight!

[Bubbletea89]

Tell your girlfriend your bothered by it and ask her if she can talk about the hitting on you and your friends with him. Would she like having a female friend of hers hit on you? Don't think so.

Anyways be very careful of the words you choose for this.

[Anonymous]

I don't like gay men either.

[Anonymous]

Just tell her this and ignore the guy