I can't stand my boyfriend's female friend?

I really dislike one of my boyfriend's friends, and I don't know what to do about it.

She lied about health problems (probably for attention) which really pissed me off. I've been struggling with various health problems and crappy ignorant doctors, many of whom think I'm making my symptoms up, for the past 2 years, so I take lying about this very seriously. She and people like her are the reason people with real conditions are never taken seriously and given inadequate treatment.

Needless to say, we got off on the wrong foot, and I can't stand her lying, manipulative behavior.

To make matters worse, she has some sort of weird jealous thing for him (I don't even think she likes him romantically, just likes the male attention) and will make up lies about me and has tried to make me a running joke between them. She also completely disrespects our relationship and acts very sexually flirty with him.

It makes me really uncomfortable and puts a strain on our relationship.

She's not his best friend or anything, just someone a year younger than him that he went to high school with.

I just don't know how to deal with her. I can't handle her abuse, it's so catty and immature, and she refuses to talk to me about it.

My boyfriend and I ended up taking a break for a bit because of this strain on our relationship, plus we secretly met for a while as her abuse becomes worse when she knows we're together. Summer's coming to a close and soon we'll all be together again in college and I need some advice on how to deal.

Thanks in advance!
I can't stand my boyfriend's female friend?
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