My girlfriend's gay best friend worries me...

[rickidee]

Hi, I don't quite know how to say this, but my girlfriend has2 new gay best mates, they've known each other for 4 days. I was in town with them today and I don't know why but I think I got jealous, because of what they were talking about. They was walking through town holding hands, cuddling etc and I felt left out.

They was talking about a sleepover which they're having tomorrow night and talking about having sex etc, I don't know what to think, obviously anyone would think "hold on this doesn't seem right". They're clearly gay too but I do worry incase they end up having sex or at least oral.

On top of that she always looks in there eyes and stares at them while telling them how gorgeous they are and telling me how sexy they are and how she loves there eyes. Tells them that they are her world and she loves them.

Clearly this is why I get jealous, because, even though they're gay, they're still guys, and she should have eyes only for me right? Whether they're gay or not she still thinks of them as better looking than me and tells them she loves them more than me...

I'm unsure what to think right now so any help would be appreciated a lot!

Updates

+1 y

After we got together, she also told me that she's still in love with her ex and asked me if I mind. Course I mind, he's her ex.. They apparently still talk, iv'e also had a lot of lasses warning me about her, saying she's come onto their boyfriends etc and obviously this is my main reason to worry, what if she comes onto them as they're "so gorgeous". My reasons for worrying aren't for no reasons, there's reasons behind it and that's what iv'e just mentioned.

[Joe814]

Look, I would be jealous, I would be rude, I would ask which of the two was the best fighter (cause I'd stomp him first.) I don't like the sound of this. Don't be fooled, gay men have no problems switch hitting so there is trouble in paradise. You are your woman's man. She would have two choices: 1.) No huggy huggy, 2.) or no friendly happy couple. No way. If she bucks your requests ( in a firm demanding sort of posture ) do not budge my friend! Do not! Jealousy cannot be a part of love but respect is a part of love and she must be shy about showing you any. Been there sir. She is riding the fence and she is not in a musical or the circus. Time for her and you to make some decisions. Consider leaving her if it comes down to a power struggle. When she folds her arms and decides you sound like a father rather than someone in love with who she is, it will be the ultimate best thing to give her a quick peck on the forehead and tell her "goodbye then, and good luck." It will cause you pain and deconstruct you as a man to be tolerant of this behavior. You may want to ask her FIRST if she is trying to make you jealous, extrude a serious response from her my friend. Good luck to you and let me know what you think.

[malekoniky]

It bothers you. You should talk about it with her. We cannot change anything. It is not like you need advice.

[malekoniky]

If she is like that and still in love with her ex, you shold move on or be in trouble. Question is if she is worth it ( Is the juice worth the sqeeze :) ).

[Vasillilaw]

Break up with her. I think she may have fallen in love with someone unattainable. I mean, I have a gay best friend that I've been friends with since I can remember and my boyfriend hasn't met him yet, but me and my gay friend say stuff like that all the time to each other. The difference is that we're completely joking and I would NEVER say those things or give my gay guy friend more attention than my boyfriend. You're girlfriend really isn't worth your time if she's even willing to give gay guys she met just a few days ago more attention than you.

[Butterfly_kisses09]

Wait they talk about having sex with HER? Then obviously they arn't gay...She sounds like a bitch, she should NOT be saying she loves them more than you, seems like she doesn't even care about you. Just because they're gay doesn't give her the right to do and say those things. I'd break it off with the bitch, tell her if she loves them so much then she can have them.

[rickidee]

It's an odd one isn't it. After we got together, she also told me that she's still in love with her ex and asked me if I mind. Course I mind, he's her ex.. They apparently still talk, iv'e also had a lot of lasses warning me about her, saying she's come onto their boyfriends etc and obviously this is my main reason to worry, what if she comes onto them as they're "so gorgeous". My reasons for worrying aren't for no reasons, there's reasons behind it and that's what iv'e just mentioned.

[Butterfly_kisses09]

Well then you should just end it. Obviously all those people can't be lying, she seems shady.

[b_luvedbaby]

It sounds like an emotional affair. I'm not sure what to make of them talking about having sex at this sleepover, that doesn't sound very gay to me...

Friendship with someone of the opposite gender is fine, but this sounds like she feels more for him than friendly :/

[cyan_0501]

confront her if its not yet too late.