Why do my bfs friends make jokes purposely trying to make me upset?

[Anonymous]

I have no problems w/ my bfs friends and they have no problem w/ me however they will sometimes say stuff like “we have this girl that wants to see Alex she’s rlly big” and stuff like that. My friend thinks it’s just how guys are and that there insensitive and trying to upset my boyfriend more then me however I talked to my boyfriend and they were saying how visibly mad I got which makes me feel like it was malicious.

[ohsheeT]

Okay so time out they are saying the friends are saying there's a girl that wants to see Alex that's your boyfriend

And the girl is really big

No they talking about another girl or are they talking about you

If they're talking about another girl are you yes they're trying to piss you off they're trying to get you upset and these guys are not true friends because you can do jokes and mess around with people in a lot of different ways but if they're going out of their way to hurt somebody they're not a true friend and your boyfriend should understand that until then to chill out if you'd really likes you if he's picking his friends over you you need to make a choice then too

[Jay-_-]

Either they are trying to be loyal friends to your boyfriend by not getting to close and having that bro bond with you or they haven't mentally hit maturity yet.

[SweetJoyGirl]

“Hahah ik they can, I just wanted to know psychologically why”

They are psychologically immature. On like the female brain fully developing in our early twenties, the male brain fully develops in their late twenties. Hence, their immaturity and inability to comprehend basic appropriate/ inappropriate social queues at such a young age.

[DishLady]

They're just teasing you. It's a guy thing. Just means they know you're cool with them. You're "one of the guys" to them. WAY better than your boyfriend's guy pals hitting on you...

[Jay-_-]

Exactly

[Nikki1989]

It is called immaturity and lack of respect. Not uncommon for most men under the age of 30.

[katiesmuff]

Boys will be boys!

[In_Trance]

because they can

[Asker]

Hahah ik they can, I just wanted to know psychologically why