Why is it impossible to date online, such as Facebook Dating, Eharmony, Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, PlentyofFish, Match, even with premium subscriptions?

[bmm1996]

[Anonymous]

Well for starters half are catfish. The remaining half, half of them are just window shopping they do not want to date anyone. Half of that remaining half is just looking for that unicorn. The one that checks 300 boxes. The remains half of that half want to date but are extremely better and judging you by every mistake SHE'S ever made.

I can keep going. Bit at the end of the day the amount of women on a dating website looking to ACTIALLY DATE is very miniscule.

My advice to you is take online dating with a grain of salt and chase anyone you might meet there with a shot of penicillin. My advice to you is don't message ANY woman and only respond to the ones that message you. That's what I do. Online dating is mainly for entertainment. That's how you have to view it.

[slatyb]

No idea what it's like today. Match worked for me after I divorced in my mid-thirties but that was some years ago. I was with one woman for about five years, we split up, and a year later I met my wife.

[DishLady]

Because people are easily fake on these platforms and there’s no way to suss out the truth from the bs without meeting in person and seeing what’s reality and what’s illusion.

[Nikki1989]

Is this a real question? You are 28 and haven't figured this out yet?

[Chartreux]

Why not dating for real, in real life?

[bmm1996]

I would gladly do so. The problem is where the something, something, something are they at? I have tried asking coworkers and clerks for their numbers. I have even given out my phone number and of course asked if they are single, just in case. I am tempted to do speed dating at where ever they offer it, assuming that my work schedule matches with their program and that it actually works. "THE REEEEEEAL QUESTION THAT I HAVE IS HOW DO YOU DATE FOR REAL, IN REAL LIFE?" I HAVE TAKEN A MULTITUDE OF ADVICE: SEVEN FORMS OF LOVE, PUTTING YOURSELF OUT THERE, GIVING PEOPLE YOUR NUMBER, ASKING PEOPLE FOR THEIR NUMBER, DATE WHO YOU ARE NOT WHAT YOU WANT, ONLINE DATING, HAVE HIGH STANDARDS AND MORALS, HAVE LOW STANDARDS AND MORALS, GO TO BARS, GO TO CHURCH, GO TO A COFFEE SHOP, IT WILL HAPPEN WHEN IT HAPPENS, RESEARCH ONLINE, ASK MORE PEOPLE FOR ADVICE, GO THROUGH AN ONLINE TRAINING PROGRAM/COURSE, ITS NOT WORTH IT, I DON'T KNOW, ASK THAT PERSON OVER THERE, GO TO A CONCERT, GO TO A STRIP CLUB, GO TO LAS VEGAS, PRAY FOR A MIRACLE, EXPECT THE WORST AND HOPE FOR THE BEST, CONFIDENCE IS KEY, GO ON INSTAGRAM, TIKTOK, TWITTER, YOUTUBE, FACEBOOK, PORNHUB, ONLYFANS, SNAPCHAT, ETC. ETC. ETC. Are there any volunteers? Anyone want to video chat so I know that they are not an annoying, something, something scammer. I can't even put it into words how many and how annoying scammers really are. But hey I will keep trying to put myself out there. Holy something, I might as well as ask CHARTREUX. Will you date me and do you match my personal preferences? Are you single? My number is 608-568-4526. Shitoki mushrooms, I might as well. I almost guarantee that it will end the same way. SADLY for me. But I have been told hope for the best and expect the worst. Best of wishes to you CHARTREUX. Take care. Hope you respond.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Because good people don't need dating sites.

[In_Trance]

So, ALL of the sites are a problem? Or is it you?

[Anonymous]

Because dating is history these days