Why are more short women reluctant to date short guys and be vocal about it?

[TommyWiseau69]

I'm a 5'4 male and I've gotten rejected from women my height and shorter. People be like "go for shorter women." Attempt made at women 4'11 to 5'2. They said I'm tol short. The most direct were like 4'11 and 5'0 women who told me taller guys are better. Not taller than them but taller than myself. I immediately get bad vibes from short women with these experiences. It seems like as time goes on these little ones are getting more strict. Is it some kind of insecurity because they hardly are even making it to 5'5 or 5'6? Do they feel as though they need a taller guy to somehow donate his height to make them feel more "standard?" I don't get it. I already feel awkward enough standing or interacting with people much taller than me so I really cannot wrap my head around someone shorter than me being more comfortable with someone that they are like dwarf sized to.

[silvermoon84]

It depends on the woman. I’m 5’6” (5’9” when I’m in heels), and when I was still in my twenties I dated a guy if I stood next to him barefoot he still would barely come up to my shoulders (I’m not making fun of his height, just mentioning that to make a point). We didn’t last (for other reasons not related to his height), but just know there are women out there who aren’t bothered by a man’s height. I’m sorry that you’ve encountered so many who are, but don’t give up hope. I would date someone your height as long as you’re not bothered by your date being two inches taller.

[TommyWiseau69]

5'6 isn't even that small for a woman in my opinion. I think that's medium height. There's women that are a lot shorter than you I've come across directly and indirectly that don't want to date guys that are like shorter than 6'1. I could actually understand if you're a woman that's taller than average wanting a tall guy but like what difference does it make if a guy is shorter than 6'1 and you're like 4'11? Even a 10 year old kid is taller than that

[Anonymous]

It makes them look shorter.

[TommyWiseau69]

Ah yes so they want to look like they belong in Snow White and the Seven dwarves. A woman that doesn't even make it to 5'5 thats already small needs to look smaller. Excellent logic

[Anonymous]

What about your luck with taller women?