Why do so many people think short women are willing to accept short men?

[TommyWiseau69]

I'm a 5'4 guy and get rejected for my height by short women and it makes no difference whatsoever compared to women my height and taller as they like taller guys. If anything shorter women are more likely to be picky about height and reluctant to date short men

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yup... the same reason fat women won't date a guy that's fat. I mean the fat guy doesn't even weigh as much as her, but she's going to have that standard for some reason.

The current SMV of women is through the roof as well even if it's not justified. It's why we have so many chicks that are over 6 figures in debt for their gender studies degree that will never do shit for them and they're demanding retarded shit like guys that make at least $1M/year. She has a lot of options, or at least thinks she does due to social media... and without the daily face-to-face, she's not going to figure out I'm just a molesting inmate who's not interested in anything beyond smashing.

This is just the modern world. Short dudes like you exist because at one time, it didn't matter as much because the females and your mother didn't have hundreds of men every day at her fingertips like chicks do now. It just is what it is.

All is not lost because if the short dudes that made you could do it, you can too... but it's going to be really hard for you. I run into rejection all the time from chicks that are around 4'11" tall and I'm 5'10", so I know you've got a raw deal or a rough hand of cards dealt to you.

That's just how it is now because these chicks have a hand-held computer in their hands and she can post a conservative picture with the results of hundreds of dudes asking her if she wants some dick for it thanks to social media.

[Anonymous]

I think it's the other way around, the people on this website think that tall men like short women, I don't like women who are less than 161 centimeters tall, in fact my mother is a 162 centimeter dwarf, and my Father is a man of 185 centimeters. I hate my mother deeply for being a dwarf, because I am shorter than my father, I am 181 centimeters tall, I hate how that fucking dwarf had to look for tall men and ruin my height.

[Rei13]

I’m 4’11 and got bullied for it heavily growing up. As an an adult I see comments that all short women only want super tall men, short women being compared to children, etc. It is insulting. I’ve been rejected based on my height too (guy didn’t say it, heard it from others) when I really never cared as almost everyone is my height or taller. Generally whenever I have seen other people in relationships they’re either around the same height or the woman is a few inches shorter. Whenever there is a huge height difference it just stands out more. I know a few guys around your height (my boyfriend included, he is also 5’4) and they generally ended up with women between 5ft to 5’5 with a few exceptions. Honestly I think you need to stop fixating so much on how tall you are whenever it comes to dating. You can’t control that. Just focus on the things you can control. The way you look/present yourself, your personality and career. The friends you surround yourself with. Hobbies. There are other people out there, you just haven’t met the right one

[Ozanne]

As a short (er) woman, I had been teased all through my adult life about being short. I'm a woman. This thing keeps getting brought up about men's height, but women can also feel inadequate about it.

I've mentioned many times here that I have had past boyfriends of all colours, shapes, and sizes. But I clearly recall being interested in taller men, and getting the comments from them such as, "You're too short for me". Like, what?

Height is so focused on, and I don't even know why. Most times, couples are sitting together, lying down together, or doing things physically where they are several feet apart from each other, that there is no bearing on why a man or woman's height has anything to do with anything.

Dancing? Okay maybe. But that is seriously it, and even then, the couple will find a way to make it work.

Danny DeVito & Louisa Moritz dancing in "One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest"

[Unit1]

"Height is so focused on, and I don't even know why."

That makes 2 of us. In my 28 years i never once cared about height and i don't get this obsession either. People must be bored.

[inhua]

they also think unattractive women will be attracted to unattractive men completely missing the point they are unattractive

it's also funny when they say high body count men shouldn't have body count requirements for their women but short women are allowed to have height requirements for their men

[TommyWiseau69]

Yeah and people know that the height requirements of most short women is 6'0+ like most women so it's pointless to even mention it. There's really no type of women at all for short men as it's already an unattractive trait. Even unattractive women find short men unattractive

[inhua]

it's really simple when you boiling it down to its basics

men's preferences = misogynistic and hateful

women's preferences = good and necessary

[inhua]

when men reject women, it's nowhere near as rude as when women reject men

something as simple as avoiding high body count women is seen as offensive for some reason

[RoοstеrBrеаst]

@TommyWiseau69 I don't get it, why don't you just say "fuck it"?

Be like a fucking warrior who doesn't need that softie lovie boobie mommy family shit.

And anyone else complaining about unsuccessfully trying to date.

It has been known forever that women distract men from being true "warriors", they turn men into "boob feelers", pleasure addicts, and overall less determined in other reas of life than family shit.

And now biochemical research proves that sexual arousal clouds your brain, impairs memory, and also cooming raises prolactin and prolactin slows your reflexes and reaction time. Thus you're in a never ending cycle of arousal = clouded memory 》cooming = slowed reflexes》arousal again... it doesn't matter how many times you've fucked. It's never enough until you make the conscious decision that you had enough. And why not decide that you had enough NOW? This isn't some religious anti-sex shit.. I actually suggest that your productivity is decreased if you're chasing sex. Look at the most densely populated countries (india? China?) Their men don't seem to be the most desired men... perhaps cooming and making babies makes you less masculine? Their economic success is due to quantity of workers, not individual power.

[RoοstеrBrеаst]

I myself identify as a "horror cock" who can slash ghouls in half with my massive sword-like shaft. I'm a demon slaying prick. It isn't because of an inability to get laid, hell, I'm above average in height and cock size, lean and muscular, adequate grades in school and respected by the places I was employed at. But in a sense I'm mentally different. And I have a fear of being an insecure weakling.

I think more of us should become "warriors" who don't need pussy for motivation. I realize that pussy-motivation is temporary, initially it drives you to grow financially and shit, as a teenager you compete to be the fastest runner so the chicks like you... but then it traps you. Fucking booby traps. Seriously what is it exactly that you need from a woman?

Maybe... we are all under a mind control spell by nature? It wants to propagate the species. Well, what if you refuse to? Then I guess you have excess time? Like I said, I'm not even short or anything and I chose not to play the game. Maybe you should make this mental decision as well? Lots of men choose to stay single..

In a way it feels "wrong". And it could be that we are biologically programmed to see reproduction as "correct", refusing it takes mental strength... and if you're a real man, can you really lack mental strength?

[BabyGirl_Tric]

Meh. Join bumble or some other such dating site that you can set your height requirements bc that means the woman can too and then EVERY woman you see at least thinks they will like a guy your height. 🤷‍♀️

[Sonorous]

I disagree about the shorter women thing. Mainly because women simply tend to prefer to date men who are taller than them. And you'll have a greater chance of being with a shorter woman because of it.

[TommyWiseau69]

No I disagree. I've gone after plenty of shorter women. They all rejected my height. I've never seen such picky women until I mer short women

[Sonorous]

I'm going based on what is probable. It's more probable that shorter women will give you a chance. Trust me.

[TommyWiseau69]

No it's actually not lol. The women I match with are 5'5 and taller. I've matched with a 6'2 woman and a few woman 5'7 to 5'11. It didn't go anywhere though

[patrick994]

My friend, unfortunately most women are pretentious in everything, height is a prerequisite for 99% of them, being short means having a huge disadvantage in terms of attractiveness, I too am short and I am often rejected for my height, by now I am used to it.

[havingfun2023]

Are shorter women I wonder picky about dating a taller man, at least 6 foot, at least. Anyways, I've had short women over my lifetime so far imply they were attracted by my stature. I'm 6ft. Not 6 foot plus. Just, a 6 foot. Ah well 🙂😋

[havingfun2023]

Especially the shorties below 5feet5 and shorter. Then again, short women too heavy probably would find me too stick figure. Oh well 😅

[Nikki1989]

Because it is fact. I am one of them, and I know my best friend thinks just the same.

Just because a few insecure men say something is so doesn't make it true in all cases.

[marish01]

Yes that applies to guys who don't want to date fat women.
Just because a few insecure women say something is so doesn't make it true in all cases.

[nastyb]

because short women are more likely to date short guys than taller girls. As long as she is shorter than you, you have a chance.

[TommyWiseau69]

No they aren't. Not in my experience

[nastyb]

From my experience, short women are the only ones dating short men

[TommyWiseau69]

You must live in Asia or South America but I do believe it's true there. Here in the USA not at all. Short women have been brainwashed into liking bigger men and they wanna follow the other crowd of women going for big guys. I've seen some crazy fucking height differences online. Short women in the USA don't care how tall a guy is even if he's 24 inches taller than her with her being nipple height she'll love the crap out of him. Women in Asia and South America though are smart, they know what's more practical romantically and they don't have to jump to kiss a guy. Sadly, American culture is very shallow.

[nastyb]

@TommyWiseau69

I am from us.

But men treat women the same way. They dont tend to like women taller than them

[JHAYES317]

Ok but what about midgets? There aren’t many women shorter than them? Do they just deserve to be eternally single? That’s fucked up

[TommyWiseau69]

@JHAYES317 they are eternally single. There are people in this world that have disabilities and illnesses that other people are repulsed by so much that they never get married and have kids. Its fucked up but that's society. Every human being on this planet can't possibly get into a relationship and have it going till they die. That would be way to easy

[jshm2]

Because they may be short, but not desperate enough to date you.

[genericname85]

for the same reason, people think men accept women with small tits.

[BabyGirl_Tric]

Bc the small female tits are smaller than the guys who accepts them? 🤷‍♀️

This response is so confusing to me lol

Some guys like huge tits, some like small tits some just like ALL tits but it typically has NOTHING to do with THEIR tits lol.

I was skinny with little tits and I think guys liked them bc they were “perky.”

Now I am a BBW and I have lost 100+ lbs. (100 Pfund Gewicht) but now my boobs are massive…. Most guys are willing to overlook some overweight in the body to see huge tits….

I was never in agreement with that…. I thought meh, be skinny and just get implants….

But now, hell now! I really enjoy being a BBW if it means I keep my boobs… for me bbw is Big Breasted Woman. Not Big Beautiful Woman but I’m that too lol.

[genericname85]

@BabyGirl_Tric it's a sarcastic comment. i think it's as idiotic to say women aren't willing to accept short men as it is to say that men aren't willing to accept small tits. sure "some" may have a strong preference but for most, other aspects are more important.

the part of it that isn't sarcastic is that both male hight and female bust size are the single most significant attractiveness marker in each respective gender.

[Anonymous]

I don’t date short people only because my back will hurt trying to kiss them or things…