How can I appear attractive to women if I look like a child?

[sriganesh98]

I look very, very young, like 14-15. People routinely refuse to believe that I am 25. Even teenagers sometimes think I am younger than them. I am not entirely sure why I ended up looking like this. My brother also has the same problem so it's a genetic thing. I also think I'm not going to start looking like a regular adult for a very long time.

On top of this, I am very short and don't have a handsome face. I don't think there are many women who would be attracted to someone who looks like this. I can't grow much facial hair, some people have suggested that I use minoxidil to trigger facial hair growth but it seems like a ridiculous idea. The only thing I am comfortable with doing is (and have begun doing actively) is gaining weight and gym/calisthenics. But it is doubtful if it will at all increase my attractiveness. I will just go from looking like a skinny, short kid to a somewhat better built, short kid. Every man in my family is very thin, this is not something that is easy to fight against due to genetic reasons. I wear clothes that make me look as if I'm an adult. I try to speak in a deeper voice than what it really is.

There are many short men who are able to get married, I agree. My own brother-in-law is 5'4". But at least he looks like a grown-up. It is very unrealistic to think a woman would want to marry a man who looks like a kid.

[coachTanthony]

We all have to play the cards we been dealt. The disapointment in your tone just drips off of you which makes you unattractive. Your mindset about this is the most important.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/FftTLcYUlQ0

[bingbongbangbung]

I also look extremely young and am the same age as you, but I'm East Asian (profile pic isn't me) and also I am 5'9 ½" or 1.76m tall. If you're very short and not that good looking, you're pretty screwed unless you go to a country with very short women like Indonesia. I know my height isn't that impressive, but considering that most people in my family and my ethnic group are much shorter, it is.

[bingbongbangbung]

thanks for MHO

[iseekpinetrees]

Well because I don't know you im gunna say go to the dr and ask if testosterone is something you may need. Some people don't develop it enough growing up. Other idea is tattoos visible ones because kids obviously do not have those. Otherwise people will realize your age based on how you talk if you talk more mature than a child.

[Hinaaaaa]

Maybe just change your style a bit like a grown man.. behave like one...🙂I have the same problem people ask me about my school even though I have done my bachelor's lol

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

You may have to lean into the "cute", charming guy style vs. macho or manly. I'm too skinny and have too much of a babyface for Mr. Stud, so I have to work on humor and being cute.

Dress with style to show your maturity. A 15 year old probably won't know that stuff, so the clothing will be an indicator that you're older than how your exterior portrays you.

[Staximus]

I had the opposite problem but same effect. I looked like a man in high school and most of the girls still wanted boys. In my 20's I already looked 40 and only women in their 40's hit on me. Then in my early 30's I stopped aging until a couple years ago and things kind of leveled out because I look younger than half the people my age. Just look at it this way- You'll still look young when everybody else looks old.

[inhua]

it might suck now but think how easy it'll be to attract young women later on unless you're also 5'4

[sriganesh98]

I don't want to attract young women. I don't feel comfortable with the idea of marrying someone more than five years younger. In my culture we are expected to marry in our 20s and 30s and divorce is not considered acceptable. So it's not like I'll be chasing girls when I'm middle aged anyway. I just want to somehow marry before 35, push comes to shove I'll marry a young woman from an economically poor family. It will be disappointing, but what can be done. And yes, I'm 5'4" too.

[inhua]

each gift has a curse and vice-versa. it's up to you to use your gift to your advantage

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Baby face men usually get around it by getting a beard. Unless you want to try and rock it like Seth McFarlane

[Anonymous]

I would take hormone test if I were you. It can be lack of testosterone.

Also the height can be fixed with growth hormone but since you are 25 it might be too late.

[Nik1hil]

Dude you have A superpower, you just need to use it in right way!..

I wish I looked younger than my age.. At 26, I look like 36

[DaBiggestBird]

Jamm reminds me of Ntino but he is 13 and looks like a girl

[TruthBeTold77]

Grown a beard

[driven159]

dress like a professional

[Anonymous]

Lmao same problem here