Is looking really young unattractive to women?

Question

I'm 20 and I could honestly pass as a 14 or 15 year old in looks.

Answer 1

Explorer

I don't think unattractive is the word, awkward might be...well at your age at least. I think if a man was 40 and looked 25 a woman would be over the moon but a 20 year old looks 14 she might be worried that people think she robbed the cradle or something you know.

Asker

+1 y
Well once I'm 40 I don't care that women are after me though lol

Answer 2

Asker

Well once I'm 40 I don't care that women are after me though lol

Answer 3

lauramor

Guru

no, a bunch of girls like this guy that looks like 14 when he's 21 and it makes him be cuter or something. a friend actually had a big fat crush on him.

Asker

+1 y
Then I have hope lol

Answer 4

Asker

Then I have hope lol

Answer 5

AnonymousGlRL | 93 opinions shared on Fashion & Beauty topic.

Yoda

Looking younger is not necessarily an unattractive quality but I wouldn't want people to think my boyfriend was 15.

Answer 6

WoIIie

Guru

Your personality and style is what gets most girls.

I look really young and do get girls, though I could probably never score a saucy older woman. Man, MILFS are so yummy looking.

Answer 7

Anonymous

I'm in the same boat except I'm a few years older than you and I still get mistaken for a 15 year old, so yes I would. We'd both look like little kids together. Plus there is so much a guy a guy can do to look older. You can get muscles and grow facial hair. Girls can't really do much too look older. I've tried wearing make up but it doesn't make me look older, it just makes me look like a little girl playing her mom's makeup.

Answer 8

MilaPohstro

Xper 4

Looking youthful is attractive but not looking so extremely young. Do you think you look that young or have people told you that?

Looking old isn't attractive either.

Asker

+1 y
People have told me that. Nearly every time I talk to someone they mention how young I look and want to know my age
MilaPohstro

+1 y
Well it's not a great thing now but in the long run it will be.
Asker

+1 y
I don't want to wait til I'm 40 to start liking it lol
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MilaPohstro

+1 y
ha!

:p

Try dressing a different way...What type of clothes do you wear?
Asker

+1 y
I just wear nice looking basketball shoes, jeans, white belt, under armour shirts or these nice white long sleeve shirts

Answer 9

Asker

People have told me that. Nearly every time I talk to someone they mention how young I look and want to know my age

Answer 10

MilaPohstro

Well it's not a great thing now but in the long run it will be.

Answer 11

Asker

I don't want to wait til I'm 40 to start liking it lol

Answer 12

MilaPohstro

ha!

:p

Try dressing a different way...What type of clothes do you wear?

Answer 13

Asker

I just wear nice looking basketball shoes, jeans, white belt, under armour shirts or these nice white long sleeve shirts

Answer 14

Anonymous

It's not that looking young is unattractive, it's that BEING young is unattractive. So if people look at you and assume you're 14-16, you're going to have a bit harder time (unless there's some way for them to know you're older right off the bat, like being at an 18+ place).

But other than that, it's not really a problem. I wouldn't let the fear of what other people will think stop me from being with someone I like.

Answer 15

MeridiansAAngel

Xper 6

It depends on their individual preference, beauty's in the eyes of the beholder.

-love Sosa

Answer 16

Anonymous

It wouldn't be a big deal to me. I might not be instantly attracted, but I wouldn't not date someone just because they look young. I'm 20 and most people think that I'm 12, so it'd probably look less weird if I dated someone else young-looking too.

Answer 17

Anonymous

Probably because if I'm with you...I wouldn't want people thinking you're 15 lol

Asker

+1 y
That's what I figured
snowboarder720

+1 y
so what is your answer? you never answered.
Opinion Owner

+1 y
Idk lol I don't know like I guess...you can be attractive. But...I wouldn't wanna...go places. Depending on your personality you could be a great person to date, like, marry, etc. but I would want to stay in doors. That sounds so shallow :/

Answer 18

Asker

That's what I figured

Answer 19

snowboarder720

so what is your answer? you never answered.

Answer 20

Opinion Owner

Idk lol I don't know like I guess...you can be attractive. But...I wouldn't wanna...go places. Depending on your personality you could be a great person to date, like, marry, etc. but I would want to stay in doors. That sounds so shallow :/

Answer 21

Anonymous

I personally think men look their best at ages 35-50, so I generally just like the look of older men better.

Asker

+1 y
well I don't want to wait til I'm like 35 to finally start being attractive to woman lol
Opinion Owner

+1 y
Haha! I didn't say younger men were unattractive, I just said they generally get better with age. I've only dated one man in that preferential age range so far, haha!
Asker

+1 y
well hopefully some girls find the really young look attractive but I have a feeling most don't lol
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Opinion Owner

+1 y
Actually, most women I know do. They call me crazy because they all want younger men while I like older men.

Why do you think cougars are so popular now? Haha!
Asker

+1 y
yeah but a guy that looks 15 though? lol. I see a stupid dating site for cougars every single night on TV lol.
Opinion Owner

+1 y
Hahahahaha!

Psh, if women will sleep with their guys who ARE 15, I KNOW there are women out there that will date a 20 year old who looks 15. Haha!
Asker

+1 y
idk. I've never seen one lol

Answer 22

Asker

well I don't want to wait til I'm like 35 to finally start being attractive to woman lol

Answer 23

Opinion Owner

Haha! I didn't say younger men were unattractive, I just said they generally get better with age. I've only dated one man in that preferential age range so far, haha!

Answer 24

Asker

well hopefully some girls find the really young look attractive but I have a feeling most don't lol

Answer 25

Opinion Owner

Actually, most women I know do. They call me crazy because they all want younger men while I like older men.

Why do you think cougars are so popular now? Haha!

Answer 26

Asker

yeah but a guy that looks 15 though? lol. I see a stupid dating site for cougars every single night on TV lol.

Answer 27

Opinion Owner

Hahahahaha!

Psh, if women will sleep with their guys who ARE 15, I KNOW there are women out there that will date a 20 year old who looks 15. Haha!

Answer 28

Asker

idk. I've never seen one lol

Answer 29

pr3ttybr0wn

Master

Yeah I don't want a guy who looks like a little kid

Answer 30

snowangle | 366 opinions shared on Fashion & Beauty topic.

Master

No, that's not unattractive! In fact, I know a guy like that and I think he's really cute.

Answer 31

desidoll | 548 opinions shared on Fashion & Beauty topic.

Guru

No,I would be happy about it.He will still look good when he reached the age of 30-40.

Answer 32

Anonymous

I personally feel it is

Asker

+1 y
That's what I think too

Answer 33

Asker

That's what I think too

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