Because I'm out current society no one makes them. They are told to do what they want when they want without fear of consequences. When there are consequences society is quick to make excuses for them. Is she promiscuis? The past doesn't matter and your not allowed to judge her on her actions (ironic because you absolutely will be) if she chooses to have unprotected sex and something happens it's his fault and he needs to take responsibility for his actions (which is true he does, the problem is where society leaves out the "and so should she".) It's her body and therefore her choice to abort, it's his money and he should pay if he didn't want to pay child support he shouldn't have had a kid (again quite true but the issue is she is not held equally culpable for HER actions as he is). In short women are this way because they are allowed to be by men who baby then and women who either think like them or refuse to call them out on there behavior. This has nothing to do with some inherint glad I'm women but rather society. We are built to cater to women since they were more vital to reproduction then men are however society has always kept the negative traits of women in check until recently when feminist came in and called this restraint "oppression"(ironic since this restraint was implemented by men and women for the benefit of women). Now if society did the same thing for men you would see a different but equally disposable breakdown but the fact is since men are disposable they have never been catered to like women which is why you will likely never see this happen with men at least on any significant scale. The other issue I will point out is that men are to blame as well for allowing it, you'll see them talk about women being slurs but then actively seek out these same women because they want easy sex instead of waiting for a woman who doesn't want to give it away to just any one or the men who knock a girl up with no intention of sticking around he is as short sighted and impulsive as she is and if we condemn her for it then we must in turn condemn him for it. The ones who exploit injustices and wrongs are as guilty as those who commit them because they are clearly condoning the action.
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Because there's too many thirsty pussy boys who never put them in check.
"The question runs, not how one can acquire life, but how one can squander, enjoy it; or, not how one is to produce the true self in himself, but how one is to dissolve himself, to live himself out."
- Max Stirner, the Ego and its Own
theanarchistlibrary.org/.../max-stirner-the-ego-and-his-own
" The less you eat, drink and buy books; the less you go to the theatre, the dance hall, the public house; the less you think, love, theorise, sing, paint, fence, etc., the more you save – the greater becomes your treasure which neither moths nor rust will devour – your capital. The less you are, the less you express your own life, the more you have, i. e., the greater is your alienated life, the greater is the store of your estranged being."
- Karl Marx, Economic and Philosophical Manuscripts of 1844
www.marxists.org/.../needs.htm
What's wrong with spending time on an education? In today's society, pretty much everyone has to work. Unless you are lucky enough to win the lottery or come from a rich family. So what is the problem with trying to attain some goals?
I would say a woman pursuing an education is in fact thinking long-term. She is working hard to get a good job later and make a stable life for herself. Some people simply do not find a life partner to share their life with. So I would think that is being pretty smart trying to fend for themselves.
I think this question is a HUGE generalization. There are some men out there who do not think long term also.
"Some waste it clubbing every week, chasing pretty boys and rich men to commit, others on their education, and then they reach an age where they want to settle down and have trouble finding a man."
So... Spending a few years seeking education instead of "finding a man" is considered a wasted life?
As for those women who treat people badly when they're young then try to talk to them again later. I personnaly am thankful I was never like that (and I know I'm not the only one). So, it's not really a "women" thing as much as it's a "bitch" thing.
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Well, this is a really cynical opinion. Get out of your basement and maybe you'll find a good girl. As a hardworking girl, I am attracted to people who also work hard. It's ambition. It's not about his wallet, it's a character trait of grit and determination. It's going places. Why not go together? I want full financial autonomy before I marry and have already begun putting savings in a Roth account. Seriously, there is no reason to condemn people with such an article.
If you do porn, obviously that's damaging to one's psyche after a while. Not taking care of your sexual health, and chasing after the wrong men is a terrible waste. But why are you making this about ALL women? I think about the consequences of my actions a lot. It's about choosing the difficult right over the easy wrong. Yes, I barely get laid as a result. Ever. I don't go on fancy vacations, or blow my paychecks on bottle service. But it's worth it... it's a matter of cultivated self-controlOh godd how much more pathetic can you get. wrote a whole take anonymously just to blame your shitty love life on women. i am not surprised one bit that you can't get a girl. this is the most ironic (and idiotic but it would take yearss for you to finally process just how ridiculous and sad you sound) thing that i have ever read. its been proven time after that time women develop faster mentally, which is why we actually DO think about our long term goals and our futures way before men even start considering the consequences of their actions. do you live under a rock or something? this is some basic common knowledge that even little kids can tell you. complaining that women have fun and get an education instead of dating losers like you, what a joke.
so exactly what is your expectation? by long term, do you mean she should think about settling down with the right guy who will take care of her while she has his babies? that's funny. because what happens to the woman when she has about to 4 kids, with the right guy, and a younger piece of @ss comes along? oops. it's out on the street with you honey cause i gotta chase this young chick. and don't tell me it doesn't happen, because it does. if a woman has her hair on, she will invest in education. because you don't ever trust anybody to take care of you.
How is education a waste of time? Why is finding a man perceived as the ultimate goal for women? Maybe if some women and girls didn't waste their time chasing after guys who claim to be "good guys" they could focus on their education. I'm sorry to break the news to you, but finding a guy is not every girl's top priority. Some girls don't think about the consequences or their actions but some guys don't either. Women are not stupid creatures who are dependent on a mate. If we wanna go out partying we will, if we wanna focus on education we will. Everyone makes their own decisions, male or female.
So women waste their youth on education and men aspire to be better with education..
just bc yo no longer want to fuck a woman does not mean she wasted her life. you/ her. not the same thing.
Women are people with their own goals aspiration belies convictions.. not extensions of whoever wants to fck them.
as for arrogance..
"The arrogance of youth"
its a saying for a reason.. its not about women.- u
The reason that "irreconcilable differences" is cited as the reason for 70% of all divorces (and I have not fact-checked that statement) is that state law specifies the allowable grounds for a divorce which must be stated i the petition for divorce. The most common and all inclusive grounds allowable under most state laws is "irreconcilable differences." I have filed divorce petitions citing "irreconcilable differences" in marriages where one partner was alcoholic or drug addicted, physically violent, or had abandoned the marriage.
I personally don't find myself to fit in any of the description you just said... I have never been that shallow of a person, nor have I ever gone through any of these phases... The only thing I am perhaps guilty of is persuing education, but that will not stop me from having a realtionship if I found a suitable guy. What you are describing can't be general.
I believe all of this depends on:
1) The culture itself
2) How one is raised at home
3) The girl's personality
Perhaps most woman you have met or seen are like that, but that really doesn't mean all women are the same. No matter how many women you have met in your lifetime, it isn't even possible for you to say that you have met or seen more than maximus 20% of the women in the world (that's even a very impossibly high percentage but let's say you did, it still isn't enough to judge all.)
I hope one day you meet that dime that is going to shift your belief about the whole women population. Best of luck mate!I thought the stereotype was the opposite. A lot of guys just want hookups and don't care about long term relationships. I don't think it's a gender thing though. I think young people these days in general see their 20s as a last hoorah to be crazy, then think you should get serious and marry by 30.
I don't see the appeal in the partying lifestyle though. Im loyal and don't waste my time on someone unless I see long term potential. I'm not desperate though. I like being a lazy potato, treasure my alone time, and like being a nerd at college.
It sounds like you have bitterness towards girls though. stop chasing the club going girls. people don't meet wives there. lolI think it's because they are less logical and are more emotional then men. They have more emotional quotient compared to men
I think women tend to take their decisions based on emotions, feelings at least almost all of their decisions.
Of course what I am saying is not applicable to all women, there can be some exceptions but I am saying in general.When women are the ones who usually end up with kids, I have a hard time believing they never think long term lol
What generalization number is this?
Bro, why do you hate women so much? Who hurt you? Was it your mom? Did she not love you or something? I can totally see why.I think all young people, regardless of gender, go through an arrogant phase like what you described. Some grow out of it and become adults, but others never grow up (-:
Another butt hurt man making shit to justify his short comings, lol.
FYI, men are far more impulse than women and do way more stupid shit in their youth and early adulthood.
But again, what do u know, I just wasted my life getting a PhD and a high-paying job. Right?Oh yeah, because young men are SO responsible and mature... haha! What a fucking joke.
"Many women will treat a man like shit in her youth or asexually and even reject his advances in favor of going with a male that seen as high status in the current environment..."
My apologiesWomen are born knowing all actions have consequencea aince we you know get pregnant. men on the other are biologically incappable of getting pregnant so you don't have risk factors. More men do dumb shit that gets them killed, the cheat more based on their formonea.. you guys are more illogical than you think
Because women tend to be more powerful in their youth when they look better. When they hit older age, they become weaker. Us men who were treated like shit by those chicks, we have to fight through the pain of being rejected and work hard and then maybe we'll find better women.
See the way that the nerd is clenching his money, he's trying to protect his economic resources from triflers like her. These women didn't have my back when I was young and they'll never have it.This is what awaits women, when the consequences of their wilfulness, stupidity and lack of consideration of consequences catches up with them.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yk9MREmmWWcMen nurture their careers, kids, stocks, social media accounts and everything else. Yet, when their wife asks for a divorce he is 😲. What happened? I'm planning our future, I'm establishing myself... Etc. A woman seeks attention and affection for a long time before divorce almost to the point of begging. Men fail to realize women need constant love and affection and if someone or something else is receiving that more than her. Your slowly losing her. Woman want to continue to be loved and adored. What if she was the girl who loved you when your shoes were ran over, and bought you new ones. Now years later you won't even acknowledge your wife on social media. Thousands invested in stock, but she never got a real ring. When she finally stops arguing yeah she's done.
I've never thought like this, because all Ii every worry about are the consequences of my actions. I tend to be a buzz kill to most people my age, because I think about how that one bad grade will affect me, or how I may have fucked up when talking to someone earlier that day. I'm full of worries all the time, so I never really do anything "out of line", even though if I did the things I wanted to I'd be a much different (meaner) person
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