Why do you think a lot of women do not take accountability & responsibility for their decisions when it comes to sex, finances, and more?

[Anonymous]

This question was influenced by reading a piece in the Associated Press (AP), where a 23-year-old mother of three was looking to abort her pregnancy.

A nurse moves a probe across her belly, showcasing cardiac activity, a "heartbeat" at 10 weeks and two days.

The 23-year-old is relieved and glad that she's under the legal requirements for wherever she wants to get an abortion.

Later on she goes on to say "no more unplanned pregnancies."

How can she be 23 and have three children? Potentially a fourth?

Why couldn't she make better decisions earlier to prevent the predicament that she was in? The pregnancies seemed definitely avoidable.

Then I realized a lot of women are like this in a variety of things in life not just when it comes to pregnancy.

[MCheetah]

Because no one ever calls them out on it. I'd say 95% of all women are like this, and that's not me being "sexist." I just have to coexist with women and always hear them make excuses for everything, including their own life choices. (Again, not even being sexist here; it's just reality.)

As for abortions, not all women are just whores who didn't use protection. A lot of women get pregnant even with the guy using a condom, cause it breaks or something. I'm fine with abortions, as long as a woman doesn't get two or more in her life.

[abbie_wright]

I don't get this... it takes two people to procreate, however it's the woman who has the physical proof of this. These woman in the videos are just one demographic of a whole population, they themselves have never been in a situation that amounted to this. The woman was aborting the fetus was showing "accountability" by limiting herself to 3 children instead of 4. There is a lack of understanding here: there is no input in her lifestyle and choices that amounted to her ending up with the child. She is effectively giving up the fetus as a way to provide for her own children and being a responsible grown woman.

[Apple1996]

I see no problem if a mom of 3 wants to get a abortion. She probably knows that she can't care for another baby. That is taking responsibility in my opinion.

And you do realize that women are extremely fertile the first 2 years after having a baby so even if she tried preventing with birth control it could have easily failed compared to a woman that has no babies. I've heard a lot of stories lately especially surrounding the iud failing on new moms.

[RandomGuy1030]

The real question is why do bitches hate our kids

[Apple1996]

@RandomGuy1030 I have no idea cuz I love having kids

[abhi44444]

It not about that it about if they are not going in relationship why the hell she getting pregnant also if they are in relationship having more children mean taking more responsibility if you are rich okk than may there will serve t if not then there need to be one person in house and 1 in office also will lady who have three or more kid will be go job so see earn for family or will she expect other to do that you pregnant her so take responsibility. Responsibility come two ways

[Light909090]

It is moral to Not take responsibility people are Considered human beings if they say it wasn’t there fault. We the superior race Reward those that are not Accountable for there actions and And punish those that take Accountability for there actions. We punish truth tellers and we reward liars. The roles are Reversed are you on the side of Goodness = taking no accountability and receiving rewards or your on the side of EVIL = taking responsibility for your actions and being Punished for telling the truth

[CallmeTheKnight]

This is where you compare women here. Those that hold themselves accountable tend to always be mature, reasonable, and feminine.
As for those that avoid it, selfish, childish, and angry.

It can be the ego, victim mindset, lack of being held accountable by peers and family while growing up..

As far as abortions.. while it's also being exploited as a form of birth control, the rate of abortions were ridiculously high.. with how much contraceptives we have available, there is no reason for people to have so many abortions. I know there is rape and incest, but they already proved those were very low..

Aside from that, it just depends on the woman and if she's mature enough to handle accountability

[dustybiker]

“Why couldn't she make better decisions earlier to prevent the predicament that she was in?”

You should know by now that assumptions are dangerous, and rarely accurate.

You assume her situation was avoidable.

Always judging others in odd questions with no solid facts..

[Asker]

She literally said at the end "no more unplanned pregnancies."

Also, she's 23 with three children, a fourth, if she decided not to kill him/her.

There's also no mention of a husband or father for the children, so I assume she's a single mother.

[normalice]

Same reasons men don't. It's just that men dont have to walk around with the consequences sticking out of them for 9 months so people forget to blame them.

[Adam1978]

They have been spoiled rotten, time to learn that there won't be a shining knight that will save you from your mistakes. If they want the man treatment they have to take all the shit with it.

[RedStiletto88]

It’s really none of your business what a woman chooses in her life. Nothing we do affects you in any way so just mind your own business

[abhi44444]

You can't as 23 do she have good job or his partner if the relationship not workout will it not affect her family it not only her business it her whole family business

[abhi44444]

Also does sex without contom feel so good that you can even accept more pregnancy

[RedStiletto88]

I honestly am not sure how any of that is relevant

[abhi44444]

Isn't everything is connected you connect it yourself

[abhi44444]

Aslo who are those hot people 8n your pic

[RandomGuy1030]

They want to be god... they get off on aborting our babies. Its a chemical rush "im in charge". When you tell them they aren't, they freakout, protest naked (for kids to see). Etc. 100% of women are mentally ill like that

[RandomGuy1030]

If you tell them "why is your skirt so short that little kids can see your ass?" They will cry and say "i was groomed"

[katiesmuff]

Probably for the same reason some men are just like that as well.

[Asker]

I think women have a much harder time with this though

As evidenced by the videos above

[likelyOK]

Both people need to be accountable. And I am prolifer and a single mother I would rather you not generalize.

[FilmGuy93]

It's an ego thing. Taking responsibility presupposes that you are doing something wrong. People who are insecure hate the idea that they might be doing something wrong.

[TwoToTooTutu2]

I think for them it's just so easy to get money from a man. Don't need to be accountable

[AssholeNumberOne]

Because some girls are so stupid they think they can get away with whatever they want cuz they're girls. It's disgusting.

[OlderAndWiser]

Perhaps this is why many women want a MAN who takes charge of a situation!

[OddBeMe]

Sure. So do men. Not sure who is more. Would need proper, unbiased research.


But you going straight to women about this seems telling.

[zagor]

That should read "a lot of people..."

[Twalli]

I highly doubt she's had 4 unplanned pregnancies. It's pretty easy to plan around getting pregnant.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Women are known to make bad decision left and right

And Accountability is Like Kryptonite for women.

[Iron_Man]

For those that are like that they should take care of their own business

[EaterPeter]

Why would you? If you can get away with almost everything

[slatyb]

It's not women, that's just people.

[MaxRobespierre]

Women are neotenous in nature.

[Apologies456]

Some men don’t either