Do you have sex after a few dates or when guy asks to be your boyfriend help?

[Sugar100]

I have fear of having sex because I’m 27 and never had a boyfriend. Never had a serious relationship like meet family live together because no guy has asked to be his girlfriend and desires do these things with me.

the one guy I dated when I was 18 he never asked me to be his girlfriend yet we had first kiss and sex and dates I thought that meant he was my boyfriend but no we never met family in 1-7 years , he would say he’s single& avoid take pics with me.

I cannot seem to make men meet family before agreeing to sex, while my family that r married all meet family fast. A boyfriend shud easily meet family early on. If u don’t meet family it means the guys not ur boyfriend. Even teenagers meet family fast.

I have bad luck as no matter how long I wait for sex guys aren’t my boyfriend. I only have 2 body count but don’t want raise it to more.
it’s ok if I never get married but I want at least have a real boyfriend that meets family and lives with me.
I don’t have luck with men drooling to marry me or marry me fast in 3 months to have sex.
when I ask what are we I don’t get a positive reply back and get friends with benefits.
I haven’t dated any new guy in 2 years due to men only wanting sex and I say I want a serious relationship.
So I lost desire have sex and desire eager meet family and stuff I’ve never done before in 27 years , live together , trips with a boyfriend, pics , attend family functions, all that is what’s on my mind.

[ohsheeT]

You have to do it when you want to do it. You're the boss of your body. You know? When it will be right and you know the guy better than we do. You have to find out if he just wants you to have sex. Or if you really want you to be relationship with you

[slatyb]

Have sex when you feel like having sex. In my experience, women invited me to bed after three dates. Sex is usually a part of a "serious relationship". Why do you date? Do you feel that sex is a gift from you to your partner? If you do, maybe you should get over that and consider sex as something that people do for mutual pleasure.

[Sugar100]

I want a boyfriend and meet family I’ve never met family for 27 years of my life I want experience that first time in my life I don’t want sex I want a boyfriend a real relationship

[slatyb]

In real relationships, the partners have sex. When would you be ready to have sex with a new boyfriend?

[Sugar100]

Didn’t u read my question? I wrote wen I have sex the men refuse to be my boyfriend and refuse meet family and want only friends with benefits that’s y I’m scared have sex the new guy will be same say he’s not my boyfriend after we have sex

[NicholasRedone]

@slatyb no judgement however you mean women you dated wanted sex as a relationship after 3 dates?

[slatyb]

@NicholasRedone That was my experience with several of the women I dated.

[Beachbummama84]

Depends on the huy but I've never been married and usully almost always single my body count is only 7 and im 40... and I haven't had sex in 2 years over two years new years/nye 2023 and that was a one night stand

[Sugar100]

I’m scared I just finally want a serious relationship for once in my life at 27 I want show my parents my boyfriend. It’s ok if we neevr end up getting married I want meet family it’s normal even all couples that don’t make it breakup but they still met family.

I don’t want be used for sex I have trauma.

[Beachbummama84]

I get it I've been there and i have a fatherless son as a result. I feel ya

[Abbycado]

It is more than a few dates, that is for sure.

[NicholasRedone]

Hmm 🧐 at age 30 that I'm now, I look and reflect that I'm still a proud v-card holder and that - i'd rather date a woman for a fair while - a fair while - many dates - many.

[NicholasRedone]

@Sugar100 that way when the lucky day or lucky night ever comes, lol, 😄 it's emotionally worth and earnt

[Bklynbadboy12]

You have sex whenever you feel comfortable doing it