Why does a girl that has a crush on me always ruin my relationships?

[Anonymous]

We never dated and I told her I’m not interested so why won’t she leave us alone

[Flower7]

Stop talking about your relationships at work. Then she will never know if you are dating or who you are dating.

[Asker]

She’s not blind tho

[Flower7]

Why do you keep bringing your girlfriends to your workplace?

[Asker]

We work together

[Flower7]

Oh so you are dating one coworker and another coworker gets jealous?

[Asker]

Exactly

[Anonymous]

you're obviously giving her something to chase

[Asker]

What rejection that’s all she been getting

[Opinion Owner]

Are you sure? You must of gave her an inch a while back and she took a mile. That could probably be that. But I think she really likes you... toxic yes... maybe sit down and have a chat with her

[Asker]

I already did but she’s not listening or in denial

[Opinion Owner]

Then tell her to back off... text her then block her and ignore her

[Asker]

Didn’t work honestly i think she just can’t take seeing me with someone else

[Opinion Owner]

How are you going to handle that? Lol

[Asker]

I don't know 😭

[itsannalee]

The problem is in your girlfriend if you already ignore her but your girlfriend still take a blame on u.

[Asker]

We were just dating then the girl crushing on me told her we dated etc and called me a liar

[itsannalee]

You said she ruined your relationship, so it means your girlfriend doesn’t trust you?

If you ignored her and she still chase you, it’s not your fault. How could your relationship destroyed then

[Asker]

I forgot to mention the harassment she told me she was getting as well

[Asker]

She doesn’t talk to me at all anymore only if we’re alone and never in public like she’s afraid to talk to me

[In_Trance]

Because you keep interacting with her

[Asker]

We work together I have to but it’s just work that’s it Anything else not happening

[In_Trance]

I call bullshit.
I work with lots of people just like you do and nobody talks to me outside of work.
Whatever's happening to you is your fault

[Asker]

Never talked to or seen her away from work

[Anonymous]

She clearly wants to be your girlfriend.

[Asker]

She knows it’s not happening

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, then answer me this question. How is it that she is always around to ruin your relationships?

[Asker]

Coworkers

[Opinion Owner]

You need to get her out of the way, so you have no interference from her in her plan to sabotage your relationships.

[Asker]

How do I do that

[Opinion Owner]

Simply don't bring your girlfriend around her and this will not happen. That or just concede and date her.

[Asker]

That’s gonna be tough considering we work together

[Opinion Owner]

There has to be a secluded place where you can go that is far away from her.

[scott04sa22]

Avoid her