Why do you guys say it is up to me (during dates) to continue or end the date?

[Anonymous]

Are they not that interested in me? I’m used to most guys saying they want to do more with me but not “up to me”… as it feels like a weird statement.

[CuriousKevin_]

I think with all the toxic role models boys have they are sometimes afraid of messing up by showing eagerness or affection towards women. So they act indifferent and hope you are eager.
It doesn’t bode well for the future as you are not seeing their true self and me end up mismatched.
Everyone is different tho and some people are just dicks

[Asker]

Oh are you saying he wanted to see that I would’ve wanted to stay longer and show I wanted him?

[CuriousKevin_]

There’s a good chance

[Bklynbadboy12]

He's just playing it cool he doesn't want to look thirsty!🤣🤣🤣

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[itsannalee]

Seems he just wants to end it, but doesn’t want to be blamed.

[Asker]

Damn you’re prolly right… the saddest thing was this happened me twice with two guys that isn’t physically my type but I thought they were so loving and nice, people say go for someone different than you normally go for yet they’re the only ones who’s said this to me 😭

[Anonymous]

It means you don't warrant much effort.

[Asker]

I don’t show enough effort?

[Opinion Owner]

Well that may be too. But know I meant to type what I typed. You don't warrant much effort.