I don't know with me, they seem to be into me then when they get to sleeping with me they are gone?

[Brokenheartedx]

A few times it happens I'm ok with that but now it's damaging my self esteem. I won't chase men or message them afterwards as I learned a harsh lesson, I feel so down it makes me think why the hell do they bother in the first place why not be honest and say look I want a one night stand with you then won't speak to you again, Why spend weeks chatting then when it comes to the actual deed it's ignorance and chucked away?

[ohsheeT]

You need to learn how to read them. Will tell you exactly what they want and not even know it
And here's the sad part when you say why the hell do they even bother

So that tells me they're lousy in bed anyway

But when you're communicating with a guy He will tell you in his own new language That he wants To give into your pants.
And then he's gone you just Have to pay attention and learn how to read their eyes Body language and the words that they are using

Is there selfish That's number one hint right there Because they're gonna get on last two minutes Get off and say goodbye And that is one of the saddest things i've ever ever heard But pay attention to what they're saying so you don't have to go through this Or just make it harder for them , but why give it up

[Summeroflove]

Well that’s what they wanted they wanted to sleep with you. They seen you as a challenge rather then having genuine interest but once they conquered you they moved on to the next thing. People who do this are most the time dark personalities who cannot form genuine connections. But you also allow them to have sex with you instead of just declining and dumping them.

[gemb00]

Stop letting them in then. If you’re meeting them, going on a date then sleeping with them on the first date… STOP. Make them wait months.

[DishLady]

Your answer is DON'T sleep with them. Wait and make sure they want you.

[Zack-Bann]

You look just enough like Britney Spears for any guy with a pulse in his pp to want to sleep with you


But making them stick around requires substance.


Building real rapport.
Finding common ground
Reasons for them to see you as a cool chick that’s fun to be around and not just inside of


Also you need to screen out the snakes in the grass and stop giving it up so easily

[Shiprex]

There is a lot of playing going on these days and guys I think who can get access to girls by reading them and playing the game to get them into bed are going to do this as a challenge and not seek long term relationships.

Sad that it's affecting your self esteem, maybe take a break from it and build yourself up and make the journey to bed you a more elaborate one.

[DryGermanGuy]

Did you communicate your wishes and expectations early and clearly instead of hoping that the guy might pick them up along the way? At least for some guys you have to be direct.

[Levin]

Remember that your self esteem comes from inwardly, not from external sources (men).

Outside of that, keep your standards and don't sleep with men too early.

[ProbablyClueless]

The kinds of men who want to have sex with you that quickly aren't the kind who will want to have a relationship with you. It's that simple

[oldpigg]

Nobody is looking for long-term relationships with older women.

[Brokenheartedx]

Funnily enough I don't remember ever wanting to date 18 year old spotty teens whose maws still buy them their knickers

[Anonymous]

How long do you date them before you take them to bed? First date? Third date? No dates. . . just come over here and do me?

[jahaims]

You're old leftovers. You are only going to get dudes like that

[hello4433]

I'm curious how you look. No offence

[Brokenheartedx]

basically how I do in my profile picture? Would it be becos of how I look?

[hello4433]

Could be not sure

[nicfire171]

Probably hold off on sleeping with them then

[wkhan_87]

That's why marriage is best thing

[Anonymous]

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