Are they being controlling or is it because they really want to go with me?

[Queenjaileenxo]

So on Saturday i told my girlfriend and boyfriend that i am going to mexico next year and as soon as i said i was going they invited themselves and were like when are we going. So i said next year around July or September but im going to be out with my family cousins, uncles etc and they both are controlling even they say they are not it would be their first time going so they want to get to know mexico city too but im not sure if it's controlling or because they want to know what mexico city is like

[Gent207]

Okay put your foot down and tell them that it's a family trip

[Wise4myage]

Maybe not controlling but it’s rude to invite themselves like that.

[Berethor]

Is it a polyamory relationship?

[Queenjaileenxo]

Yes it is

[Berethor]

Interesting, they might be controlling but it make sense for your partners to come with you.

[Queenjaileenxo]

Yes it does make sense why they want to come with me but im probably seeing it the wrong way then and think they are controlling me