Do they really see me as their friend or maybe more? Or are they keeping me because they are lusting after me?

Jayde21
I have 2 boys as friends (boy 1 and boy 2). We haven't met yet but are talking online. The reason I trust them is because my best friend knows them personally and was with them every day when she was in (city name) and is also good friends with them.

Boy 1 is a bit of a player when it comes to girls, asks a lot of nude photos but fortunately not with me, he never asked and I always had the feeling that he really respected me?

He did flirt a lot in the beginning and there was one time when his friend jokingly went on his (boy 1) phone and asked if I wanted to give him head. Boy 1 then said it wasn't him which was true. I was joking and said "Well nice to know" and when he said "NO I DON'T" "I mean yes, but no" he said "do you know what that is?" he asked

He and those friends of his also call me Zina. They are all of Moroccan descent by the way. Gives compliments when he sees a picture of me, (damn girl, Jesus 😳 and stuff like that)

Boy 2 is a bit more direct and dominant but not so much unkind or anything and says literally everything that goes around in his head. He does have a nice character if he likes you. I talk to him more than to boy 1.

We can laugh but we've also had/still have a lot of sexual conversations... He wished I wouldn't talk to other guys online or send pictures because I couldn't trust them and if I did want it somewhere I should do it with him and it wouldn't be for himself but just with him because I know that he wouldn't do anything with it and is therefore safer he said.

He also joked that becoming daddy of my kids seemed fun and stuff and makes a lot of cocky jokes...(I think they're jokes by the way) He also said that if I said yes to the question if I wanted to sleep with him, he would go straight for it.

He also calls me one of the prettiest girls he's talked to. A very beautiful lady, he said. When he responds to my photos it is always (you're pretty)

What do you think of it? Am I too naive, am I not seeing things that you do?
Do they really see me as their friend or maybe more? Or are they keeping me because they are lusting after me?
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