Men should stop being desperate for relationships?

[cth2188]

It's getting cringe now. Why don't you men pursue pick mes? Leave feminist and independent women alone we're out here trying to survive. We're not interested in being baby making machines , getting married , or dealing with you men under patriarchal societal standards. I don't follow societal standards and live a celibate, drama free, and stress free life. There are some women who are asexual, aromantic, lesbian, etc.. I don't see traditional relationships as something I can ever subjugate myself into.

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Pursue the women who are willing to subjugate/ sacrifice themselves under this SYSTEM

[LEBANONPRINCESS]

Stange how you as a feminist think women don't need men...

You know I'm not a feminist, and I believe that God created Men to be with Women... And that a healthy Society starts with Mothers and Fathers... Otherwise there will be Social destruction... Why can't an educated, independent, woman be a wife, mother, daughter etc?

Why do feminists always want to strip away the instinct which God created a women with? Being a "Mother" "Aunt" "Wife" etc?

Since when does a Woman's independence mean she can't be a wife or mother?

Also, who told you only "feminists" get chased by men? In fact no man wants a feminist to be his wife or Girlfriend and if feminists get chased it's not cause they're feminists but because they're "Women" like any other woman that or which to some men seems out of reach cause she thinks she shouldn't be labelled as an ordinary Woman, but. Women were Created to be mothers and soulmates to men, even if they can't have kids they'll always be mothers this is how they were created "Biologically".

[cth2188]

I never acknowledge myself as a feminist so where did you get that assumption lol? I'm actually a womanist and advocate for women.

[cth2188]

Where did you see me mention independent women and women have the right to choose to be mothers , wives, etc

[LEBANONPRINCESS]

Ok, but you didn't mention that.

[cth2188]

I shouldn't have to - stop assuming things

[LEBANONPRINCESS]

When you say "Feminists" we already know what you're talking about.

[cth2188]

I have an empowerment channel on YouTube for all women , but I let people ramble on about who they think I am

[cth2188]

There in that sub category when you really look at it

[LEBANONPRINCESS]

What is your name on Youtube?

[Apple1996]

Men see those type of women as a challenge so unfortunately they will keep chasing the women who specifically are saying to leave them alone 😔

[cth2188]

Ikr 😅 ugh I'm trying to help them 😂 and help ourselves it's crazy ! What is it about us!

[Apple1996]

Men just want what they can't have

[cth2188]

It's crazy... I guess pick miss are easy... too available

[cth2188]

Mes*

[Apple1996]

Pick mes never get picked lol

[cth2188]

Ikr 🤣 so what's the end goal for these men who can't get the women they want? 🤷🏾‍♀️

[OneViewpoint]

Desperate is not a good look for anyone. Don't go in with a win or lose mentality. Don't go in to "get the girl" and then get all depressed when it doesn't go the way you want. Go in to make new friends and have a good time for an evening or afternoon. Leave happy with that. Sooner or later one or more of those interactions will click. Meanwhile you're free to do whatever you want when you want. It's a good thing.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Why are you speaking for other women tho, I've seen many independent women say they don't want to be independent and a lot that have said that being with a man makes them feel more feminine and they love it, don't think all independent women want to be independent, there's many that are cause they haven't found someone they want to be with but can stand their own while they wait

[cth2188]

I'm speaking on behalf of women like me - feminist, LGBTQ, minimalist, etc.. confused why you men keep pursuing women who aren't in your league who who will resist against the patriarchal system. I never mentioned independent women not at all by the way

[cth2188]

Yes you can be independent and still want a relationship as a woman.. there's a different league of women out here for example I'm an aromatic and asexual I don't seek relationships as a way to fill anything or get validation fulfilled.

[ChicoFromThe305]

These are actually the women nobody wants, never have I went in the comments on one of these short haired, short tempered, tatted tomboy lesbians and saw men thristing for them or calling them sexy, if you include yourself in that crowd then trust me nobody is worried about you or your lifestyle, I'm sure they want to be farther from you than you wanna be from them

[ChicoFromThe305]

Okay so you are asexual speaking for women that have a sex drive cause most women do, your asexual circle is small, many independent women have a sex drive or want connections with other people

[cth2188]

Yeah , but you men are getting desperate still doesn't change anything. I still have men approach me and lesbians get approached - why are you men pursuing lesbians. I thought conservatives were against the LGBTQ community is that what Republicans voted for?

[cth2188]

I disagree lol you sound butt hurt dude

[ChicoFromThe305]

The only women that are obviously lesbian are the ones that look like men, no men want that, I can assure you once a man realizes a woman is lesbian he would stop pursuing, if you want men to stop approaching attractive lesbian women then start wearing tags or something

[ChicoFromThe305]

I sound butthurt cause I confronted you on your toxic behavior?

[ChicoFromThe305]

You are the one offended cause men approach lesbian women why? You scared they gonna find the factory reset button? 😂

[cth2188]

You sound butt hurt in general and I don't know why.. idc that men aren't checking for me which is a lie. I just stand and live in my truth so I'm expected to get backlash when you go against societal standards

[ChicoFromThe305]

That would be cause your only defense here is to reflect your aggression towards me because you got a proper response to your toxic question 😂

[cth2188]

This isn't a toxic question it's a suggestion that maybe you men should pursue the women who align more with societal standards and heteronormative beliefs

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well how do you expect that to happen if according to you we have to know exactly who's who without approaching, how many straight women you think get hit on or approached by lesbos daily? If that's how it's suppose to be then don't even test your waters with a straight woman then, nobody can read a lesbian unless they make it obvious lol

[ChicoFromThe305]

The ones that make it obvious I assure you don't get approached

[cth2188]

Why are you worried about who approaches me and who doesn't - aro people don't care about relationships

[cth2188]

Straw man arguments

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'm not, I'm making a point, you are the one worried about people approaching others, trying to slither out now, it's too late, you are the one angry people approach others, just read your question 😂

[LEBANONPRINCESS]

Lol🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣You're right

[ChicoFromThe305]

😂💯🙏🏼

[cth2188]

Yes you are Chico kinda sad though ! I let you men ramble on - though

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yes cause I won the argument, I'll ramble to victory

[cth2188]

Actually you didn't I don't agree with men lol.. emotional men.. why are you pressed?

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'm not pressed, I just like setting people straight, you changed up real quick, good 😂

[cth2188]

Actually no.. I don't know what all this mansplaining is you men do.. it makes no sense.. behind that I never mentioned independent women at all. This is about controlling society what most of you are trying to do. It's crazy let people live and function. I don't go back and forth with XYs

[cth2188]

What was all that jumbo mumbling at the beginning

[ChicoFromThe305]

So you brainlessly didn't read cause you know you have no valid argument here? That's fair enough

I don't see why you asked a question you didn't really want a question too, lesbians smh, miserable and they show it 😂

[ChicoFromThe305]

Read and understand and you might just learn something, or ignore and protect your feelings, either way this is public, you are only right in your own delusion

[cth2188]

No your response was invalid had nothing to do with what I said..

[cth2188]

Last I checked lesbians don't date men

[cth2188]

I read your post it's projecting ijs

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yes it did you were speaking about independent women then you switched it to lesbians and then now you are acting dumb 😂

[cth2188]

But I notice you men weren't jumping for pick mes though 🤔

[ChicoFromThe305]

Oh I definitely jump for those pick mes, those are the best women, those are the good quality ones, if someone like you calls them a pick me I know they are good material

[cth2188]

Lesbians were included in my original post though yeah you men love contradicting yourselves and you don't like pick mes

[cth2188]

Pick Mes are obedient slaves ofc they're good material for you men to control and dominate

[cth2188]

Lol.

[cth2188]

There the bottom feeders. I'm not in this hierarchy.. I'm the OutKast

[Shiprex]

SO you're not a feminist above but you are here, which is it?
I think you're an angry misandrist confused by your own hatred of men
@cth2188

[ChicoFromThe305]

Okay I'll give you that point although it doesn't change anything I said, my argument stands, y'all are slaves, y'all are slaves to your own feelings and live miserably even if y'all don't admit it, these women y'all call pick mes know where they stand and embrace their femininity, not try to be something they aren't

[ChicoFromThe305]

Nah bro save yourself, I'm losing brain cells by just reading what she says 😂

[cth2188]

You will never match where I'm at Chico and I have never seen a FEMININE pick me

[cth2188]

Angry misandrist lol I hate men too? I'll admit I can be a bitch and rough around the edges, but no don't hate men.

[cth2188]

I'm vibrating on a high frequency consciously of course you wouldn't understand me Chico lol

[ChicoFromThe305]

Then you are stuck in your own world, of course I'll never match where you are, I wouldn't want such little capacity of intelligence 😂

[cth2188]

I'm a unicorn 🦄 type of woman with no normal titles and don't fit in society

[cth2188]

Chico we don't relate shrugs

[cth2188]

🤷🏾‍♀️

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'm well aware we don't relate, so you are a make believe creature that shits rainbows, normal titles? So no asexuality isn't normal, I thought the whole point of that community was to show people that it's normal 💀

[ChicoFromThe305]

Now*

[cth2188]

Asexuality is rare no 🧢. ..

[cth2188]

Yeah I'm a unicorn type of woman

[ChicoFromThe305]

Something we can agree on, unicorns reproduce, no you aren't 😂

[Shiprex]

Pick me's are the real womanly women. You could learn from them, they've held on to femininity.

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's facts are facting

[cth2188]

I don't follow heteronormative relationships.. everyone has a place in this system

[Shiprex]

@cth2188
You know you're less of a Unicorn than I am? YOU aren't even of the same nationality as Unicorns

[ChicoFromThe305]

Now that's the attitude, good my work here is done 😂

[Shiprex]

@cth2188
While I am

[cth2188]

A unicorn woman is someone different of a different clock not normal... doesn't fit in any 🎁.. I'll never fit in anywhere pertaining to society

[Shiprex]

@cth2188
Look it up if you don't know they HAVE a nationality

[Shiprex]

@cth2188
You just told me you were a womanist and have been doing it for ages on Youtube
THAT is an INFLUENCER, CONTENT CREATOR, type of cliche don't you think? Fits into a whole lot of boxes

[cth2188]

Yes I help women on my YouTube channel

[cth2188]

My calling

[Shiprex]

Men aren't desperate for relationships though.

Where do you get this idea from?

[cth2188]

A lot of you are your last thread was crazy..

[cth2188]

You also assumed I was hurting.. I'm aromantic and asexual.. I don't see relationships like heterosexual people do

[Shiprex]

LOL that was YOUR comment I was answering because you're so wrong in your grasp of what men want. I figured you were fishing for information and I was providing

THAT MEN PROVIDING FOR WOMEN thing that you feminists hate AGAIN!!! SO misogynist, patriarchy, predatory, creep, worse than bears etc.

[cth2188]

I don't care what you men want - I don't care what you men are doing for women because it's all transactional anyway. I was just continuing where I left off

[cth2188]

If you think feminist hate men who provide you must be crazy - feminist aren't in competition with men lol

[Shiprex]

Feminists do not promote men's best interests as they promote only women's so hate may be at the extreme end of that move.
You've said that you don't care what men want and that's fine
I went along with HOW you were writing as someone who has some passion although has been through some rough times in relationships.

[cth2188]

I'm not a feminist and can't speak for them - I am a womanist

[Shiprex]

@cth2188
I think you're much more than that.
But tell me the difference between a womanist and a feminist please

[cth2188]

Look it up and come back rather than arguing with me.. some of you men have some deep rooted misogyny and mental problems

[cth2188]

Look how triggered you're getting on here and why are you upset about women who are single geez!

[Shiprex]

ROFLMAO
@cth2188
Seriously you don't even know yourself and are too chicken to explain. Triggered or keen to educate someone who needs it?

[cth2188]

Go research and come back I'm not doing it for you men lol

[Shiprex]

@cth2188
Because you don't know

[cth2188]

Yes I do know I've been doing womanist work on my channel for 10 years on YouTube - I run a holistic business for women

[cth2188]

Clearly you don't know lol

[cth2188]

When you men are ready to have a civilized conversation come back.

[Shiprex]

So tell the world the difference so you aren't pigeonholed incorrectly?

[cth2188]

I'm an alien 👽 👽👽

[cth2188]

But shhhh don't tell anyone lol

[Shiprex]

LOL Civilised? You're kidding? Your grammar and obnoxious rants from the last one I didn't bother to challenge because I find you interesting and wanted to find out more
Comedy gold is what you are

[cth2188]

👿👿👿

[cth2188]

I know you do all you men do 👿👿👿👿

[cth2188]

You'll never figure me out

[Shiprex]

LOL that sound like a challenge
ACCEPTED

[Shiprex]

You're funny and probably a hoot irl

[cth2188]

What's a hoot an 🦉 lol I'm a very mystical woman ♀️👠

[Shiprex]

It's late here now @cth2188 I wish you a delightful rest of the day and hope to hear from you tomorrow :)
It's been a laugh thank you

[cth2188]

Yes you will hear from tomorrow cause you're hooked

[cth2188]

🍷😝😊.. lol

[Shiprex]

Ohh my lordy lord
A hoot is what one does when one laughs a lot
BUT you can take is as a wise person such as the owl is often regarded. The mystical woman bit is very cliche and you're much more than that

[cth2188]

No I'm mystical I'm Akina Zara

[Shiprex]

@cth2188
Thanks I will take that thought with me to bed and maybe look this person up
Your an enigma which is even better than that.
But you still don't have the Unicorn Passport though.

[cth2188]

Akina Zara is my name

[Shiprex]

@cth2188
I see thanks for letting me know.

[Anonymous]

Men are just supposed to know this by looking at you? Most men do go for the "pick me" girls as they are just normal women who don't hate men, but we have to interact with them in order to know if are or aren't insufferable.

[cth2188]

Ok I don't hate men and I'm not a pick me

[cth2188]

I think this would be good for men

[cth2188]

To connect with women who want marriage , children, etc

[Opinion Owner]

It doesn't like you think highly of men or women who want to with one and have kids. You speak about these "pick me" women like they are inferior. Do you think women who have kids are nothing more than baby machines? That's a terrible thing to say.

Of course being with someone who wants to be with you is a good thing. You have to get to approach/get to know someone in order to know if the two of you are or aren't compatible.

[cth2188]

Pick me types of women who want marriage, children , and support the patriarchal system

[cth2188]

Not every woman wants this - I think these types of women are better candidates

[cth2188]

Yes I think they believe it's ok to be barefoot and pregnant... a lot of men believe this too

[Opinion Owner]

And there's nothing wrong with women not wanting to get married and have kids. In fact, there's men who also don't want these things so they pursue said women. But again... you don't know this about a person by simply looking at them.

[cth2188]

I didn't say that - I said these types of women would be better candidates since they are more willing to subjugate themselves to these beliefs

[Opinion Owner]

You aren't understanding what I'm saying. Do you introduce yourself to everyone as "my name is ____ I don't want kids, I don't do relationships, marriage. I want absolutely nothing to do with men" that isn't natural. You learn these things about someone as you get to know them.

If you went on this rant that you posted to any guy who approached you, they would immediately move on and want nothing to do with you. Men do not knowingly pursue women like you.

[Opinion Owner]

A guy might keep trying for just sex for a short time, but relationship wise, not a chance.

[cth2188]

Most men don't know what I want.. I also don't have sex with men.. I think women who don't want marriage and kids shouldn't have sex with men? Unless its for pleasure of course , but to each their own... I wouldn't risk being intimate with a man and then chance getting pregnant if I know I don't want kids

[cth2188]

I understand what you're saying

[NathanDavis]

I've never been desperate for it

[scott04sa22]

I'm just sitting and eating my popcorn 🍿😎

[cth2188]

Ok lol interesting responses I think a lot of people are finding out that not everyone is the same

[scott04sa22]

I'm just being myself

[cth2188]

Yes all we can be

[cth2188]

Asexual and aromatic people still date we date differently. My friends have become my family and support system... if love appears there great

[cth2188]

Asexuality and aromatics are 1-3%

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

Nobody wants anything to do with you

[cth2188]

Good 😊 you men should be happy with pick mes

[cth2188]

I hope you didn't think that was an insult it's a blessing

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

I dont understand what pick mes so im not concerned in the slightest what comes out of your mouth

[cth2188]

Women are more subjugated to the patriarchal system and follow societal standards

[cth2188]

Women who are more subjugated to the patriarchal system and follow societal standards