Why do I only find men wanting a situationship and not a real relationship?

[kareenakapur]

[D_Bone_Steak]

My question to this question is...

Are you yet another fucking non-traditional woman asking for a traditional man?

I won't kiss her, but I'll add another name to the cum dumpster list.

There is simply a lot of women out there looking for that stay-at-home lifestyle of a woman from the 1950's, but want to be nothing like those women were.

As for you, I don't know you. I would ask you to analyze how you're advertising yourself, how you present yourself, and why are you only giving men that want a situationship the foot in the door?

Chances are, you're like many other women that reject those men even before a first date, and then complain about why you're not getting them. If that is your case, then please understand you're chasing guys with options... and you're not one of the best options. You might be good enough to be what we call 'a practice girl,' but you're not someone we'd want to dedicate much more than our penis to. And again if that is you, then please understand that we may be good enough to get fucked, but you're simply not good enough for that other stuff.

Here is an experiment... look at me...

I'm rich as well. You probably look at me and scoff about how you had so much better. But did he stay with you though? Probably not (I mean you're here asking this question IMR?). Now ask yourself if I'd stay with you? What would keep me from wanting to fuck that hot Blasian girl next door instead of spending more time with you, even if I've banged you for a few years already?

If you can't come up with a decent answer to that stuff, you don't deserve a guy like me to choose you over multiple options.

I don't need you to tell me any of the answers, I'm just asking you to really think about it. I think the true answer to your question is already there... deep down inside your brain.

Hope I've helped.

[Miristheiss]

Well, that is what this modern culture has sown and it is what it is reaping. We live in the age of hook up culture.

To be blunt. Women have always controlled access to sex because they are the ones that have always been pursued. Women are promiscuous now and most women have sex with guys they are casually dating. It is super common to have sex only after a few dates.

Gone, for the most part, are the days of women denying sex and requiring a man to commit to them or marry them before they risk sex. Since the vast majority of women give it up so easily now and have had multiple partners there is no need for a man to commit and take on the responsibility and financial risk of committing to one woman. Also, since most women have been with multiple men there isn't anything "special" about her to fall in love with like decades past when everyone was married by age 25 and had kids.

There is something super powerful about your first love and many have a deep connection towards that first love and never forget it. People used to marry their first love, commit and start families. Now spouses are often their 10th, 20th partner. Committing and having a long term relationship is often no longer on the table. Things are way too transactional now.

Birth control pills, hook up culture have greatly reduced the world of falling in love and long term unions.

[Kelley1]

Ten percent chance, it is your attitude. Ninety percent chance it because you have unrealistic standards. Men date down for sex but they marry equals. Stop chasing after the hottest guys that will fuck you and settle for the less attractive guys that think they would be doing well.

[DishLady]

You’re probably not looking in the wrong places and responding to cues that imply you’re ok with the former.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic situationship versus relationship conundrum! It's like looking for a gourmet meal in a fast-food world, isn't it? Sometimes, it's all about where you're searching. Picture this: if you're hunting for diamonds, you wouldn't sift through a sandbox, right? The same goes for finding a man who wants a real, committed relationship. Often, the environment plays a big role. If you're meeting guys in places (or apps) where casual flings are the norm, chances are higher you'll encounter the situationship aficionado. Next, consider the vibes you're sending out. Make sure you're clear about your desires right from the get-go—no mixed signals. It's about aligning your love compass to true north, where relationships are valued and respected. And remember, it takes patience and a bit of strategy to win the love game. Stay true to your wants, and you'll find your relationship-ready Romeo in no time. 😉

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Shut up, Love Doctor Brad.

[kareenakapur]

@PointlessNonsenseGuy i liked AI answerr

[talka20]

I don't know if this is right or not for everyone... but its like if u set goal of sun, u may reach the moon... if u show ure lookin for relationship theyd be like lets do this n that n friends with benefits etc... but if u show u wana marry someone fr n ure looking for a future husband then those might approach who wana be in relationship and figure things out for future too maybe

[talka20]

sent u dm about same topic

[Nikki1989]

Because many men are full of petty reasons why they can't commit to a woman. Scroll the comments on here and you will see what I mean.

[Zbrody1997]

Feminism is making men not want to date unless you bring value otherwise how can we respect someone who doesn’t respect themselves.

[SotiCoto]

Your methodology is probably flawed.
I hate to say it, but the AI has a point this time.

[normalice]

Men want to have sex with several women and to get into a relationship is basically admitting to themselves that that's not going to happen.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Men hate putting effort into something they love just for it to be destroyed.

[ProbablyClueless]

Maybe it's the energy you're putting out into the world? If you are guarded, you'll attract guarded people.

[DarkWinterNights]

Because most of the men actively dating are the ones that are more likely to want a situationship instead of getting tied down in a relationship.

[TommyMountainFigure]

You know the sad part of this? I have just answered a guy who is in the same boat as you.

[RHK36]

Either your taste in men is that bad or it's your personality. Odds are slim that it's just due to bad luck.

[Anastacia1989]

Maybe the guys don’t think you’re serious?

or maybe you pick the wrong guys?

[Awesomesauce2005]

You are looking at boys instead of men. I would love to get married and have children but women in my area seem to love their feminist ideals. Im in tennessee by the way

[Anonymous]

Because guys don't want a relationship with someone other guys have already had without committed. Nobody wants something everyone else already had.

[handsomelad70]

We're lads, and lads typically desire s*x much more than a true relationship (and many with multiple women), hence "situationships."

[Anonymous]

Because you use pseudowords like ‘situationship’ which makes you sound like an 8 year old.

[jahaims]

You don't know how to find proper men or that is all you attract

[Knightwatch27]

"Situationship" is such a weird term and I've never wanted one.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Where are you meeting these guys maybe you need a change of venue

[ManOnFire]

We're out there. Trust me.

[WhitneySnow]

It’s not you. A lot of guys only want that.

[JacobJordan]

Cause you keep looking at shit men

[soe11]

Personally real relationship

[MikeyPH85]

Just looking in the wrong areas!!

[eagle1951]

wow thats a cool way to state it

[kareenakapur]

wdym? im just wondering if its the places i find guys or if I look "easy" and like a girl only for a "situationship."