My boyfriend looks at girls more beautiful but claims to love me?

[Anonymous]

I noticed that my boyfriend can’t help but look at gorgeous girls, who are more attractive than me. Then when I complain he says either he wasn’t looking or that he only loves me. He glanced at a pretty waitress like four times, and what made me angry was the waitress had tried to seduce him. I love him and I live with him so I my feelings will only grow. Also my nagging is ruining our relationship because I feel like he won’t stop

[ohsheeT]

Think about when girls look at themselves. They always think they're somebody more beautiful

So I don't think you're Heads should go there

And then when he does look at other girls I mean he should have already told you the truth and the truth is all guys look at girls and all girls look at guys

And he should have been honest about that he should be honest about that

I've been in a relationships before Where I would do the same thing , and it's not so much looking at the girl But it's more like looking at her close. What she's wearing her hairstyle
The way she wears her make up But you do look at the whole package

I've also been walking in A mall and girls will pass by Looking at me I would be holding my girlfriend's hand And as.
They walked by. I would look at my girlfriend and she would have a big smile on her face As I were too

And many , many times vice versa , where we would be walking Threw them all and there would be 3 or 4 guys walking together. Headed right for us and they would all be Staring at my girlfriend and She would squeeze my hand and I knew what it was for is because she caught them and I would look at her. And she looked at me and I would just start laughing. And then as they would walk by, I would say pretty beautiful huh and then look back at her and her eyes would be big. And would say don't say that. But I wouldn't get jealous or anything. I would just be thinking holding her hand i'm the one that's with her so I have nothing to worry about

But I can hear It in your voice. The way you're talking about it. There's more to it than just that Because I can feel your words so makes you think. All I don't know if he has ever acknowledge to look. I look, I'm with you and I and I would hope that he has done that befor just to ease your mind a little bit but I think. There's more to it.
Than that
Just by the way I felt your words as I read them.

[Anonymous]

Regardless of whether it’s him or another men, men will always look. I know I do. But does that mean I love my girl of 17 years any less? No. Asking men to stop finding other women attractive is like asking you to stop thinking w your feelings. More than likely it’ll never happen. I look at everyone even if I seen them once or twice. It’s just a habit from 10 years of military service. Men tend to watch their surroundings more. Women not so much cause they’re walking through Disneyland lol how did the waitress try to seduce him?

[natured]

I think other than you being a little insecure your Man needs some manners as well.
Both of you need to figure this out before it gets out of control.
I'm only saying this because a man that loves you has only eyes for you, and HEY it's normal to look, but don't feel offensive about it, because at the end of the day YES HE IS WITH YOu, but if he keeps staring and looking that to me is just lack of manners.

[Asker]

He glanced like four times

[natured]

Tell him it bothers you, I would not like it either honestly

[Asker]

I told him and he said “it’s normal” and he said he was wondering why she was sitting there as I would be mad. I said “then why did you look at her four times?” And he said he was looking around.

[Asker]

I don't know what to do, I’m stressed because I love him. And I live with him, it’s hard to find a place. And I don’t wanna move back with my mom because she’s abusive

[Asker]

He doesn’t seem to want to change. Now he does it more subtle but I still notice it.

[Med_guy1978]

Maybe it's how they're dressed but you think they're more beautiful? Don't let it bother you, be relaxed and change something. He wouldn't be with you if you weren't floating his boat.

[Joshydavid25]

He can help it.. I know that people look sometimes and it's fine for a lot of people, but there's a such thing as being respectful to your SO.. Of it bothers you, he probably shouldn't do it, especially in front of you..

[Asker]

Yeah I don’t know why he would purposely do it knowing I’d be pissed off after. And he gets mad that I point it out. Like why can’t he do it behind my back so I don’t get mad

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah exactly.. He doesn't need to look at other women that bad.. I'm sorry this is happening to you..

[Asker]

I don’t understand and it upsets me

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, well you probably need to re evaluate that relationship.. If he is not willing to change or at least here you out and reassess his behavior..

[Asker]

Honestly I’m so frustrated about it. I asked my father and he says it’s normal for men to look at other women. And my sister said it’s also normal. But I don't know why it’s so hard for me to accept it. I think that if we continue to be together I’ll just do the same, look at other guys. lol my sister said to look at handsome guys and lick my lips 😂. But yeah I tried to live apart from him for two days. I think he’s sick of me bringing it up, but I think what I’m doing is not wrong either.

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, fighting fire with fire might work.. You blatantly checking out other guys in front of him.. I guess if that's how you wanna go about it.. Sure it's normal to find other women attractive, but looking when around your SO is disrespectful..

[Asker]

Yeah he glanced at this beautiful girl four times.

[Joshydavid25]

Well, I guess he wouldn't mind if you glance at some guys you think are handsome..

[NathanDavis]

looking at people is normal... even necessary

[Asker]

But that waitress purposely tried to seduce him and him kept glancing at her like four times sends a message and inviting her interested

[NathanDavis]

are you absolutely... 100% sure that she was seducing him?

or was that just your impression?

what did she actually do?

[Asker]

Yeah because while he was ordering food, she let her hair down and let her hair hide her face. And looked up at him seductively. Right infront of me

[Asker]

Then she kept messing with her hair the entire time

[NathanDavis]

maybe she just had lice?

[HungTexan]

Quit nagging. Just make sure you please him. He’s just looking - nothing more!

[DishLady]

He's a creep.

[jazzy34]

You’re with a player, honey. Sorry,

[Anonymous]

How do u look and him

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

How do u like like? And how does he look like

[Mrtcn01]

he won't stop... %100 not stop

[Bklynbadboy12]

Whats wrong you don't believe him

[Asker]

I don’t because I believe if he loves me he wouldn’t have to look at other girls