Why do people keep judging me for not having a boyfriend at 19 and still being a virgin? Why do people act like it’s so weird?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

It's not weird at all. It's actually really kind of beautiful

It takes a lot of strength to do what you're doing.
Whether you're doing it for a reason or whether you just hasn't had an opportunity. Yet.

Also who finds it more weird girls or guys..
If it's guys it's because they want in your pants

If it's girls it's because when the lost there Virginity.

It was either really, really bad or it was really, really good.
And that means either the guy that they decided to give it up to was either selfish or he made it all about her and that's what you're looking for.
You wanna make sure that' the guy really likes you and you like him..

You're gonna find out in life that most guys are selfish and only think about themselves. So what that means is when you make love?

You want to make sure it's a guy? It wants to please you wants to make love to you wants to make you happy So you have a very good experience..

If it's just some guy you meet You start making out.
And it happens.. And next thing you know you're undressed. He's undressed boom he lays on top of you.. fiddles around for 2 min. and next thing you know. he's getting dressed. You will say
What are you doing? What are you doing?

And he will say thank you that was great..

Then 2 days past. And you start hearing the rumors about the guy that did you. . and that he did you all night. And that you were a bad fuck because you didn't know what you were doing..

It's all ready bad enough that. You waited this long. To do it. And it's totally sucked. But now all the Rumors That you have to deal with.


OK, so now with all the above. I need to apologize to you.
Kind of
All the above is true
But I don't want you to think it is that It is going to be that way.
It just depends on the person that you pick.
And I really believe that it should be special. The very first time you do it , . And like I said , most men Are selfish and always thinking about themselves
Self don't worry about what other people are thinking because it's none of their business anyway, it's only your business and the person you do it with. Do not let it. bug. Or push you into doing it sooner than you are ready to.

You will know when the time is right

[Summeroflove]

They’re jealous that you still have a piece of yourself they gave away to dozens if not in some cases hundreds of people

[natured]

THat is crazy, don't even listen to these people, you are young, you are still a baby haha, you should enjoy your life and focus on yourself. Those people are just so insecure that's why they are doing whatever they're doing.
YOU WILL DATE MORE THAN ENOUGH you have time !!!

[Nikki1989]

It is not weird, just unusual. 19 is really pushing it, regardless if you are male or female.

[DishLady]

They're baiting you. Ignore them.

[Alex-Snow]

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 19. Wait for the right guy at the right time. Until then I assume you can enjoy some solo pleasure time if u know what I mean. I'm ur age (not a virgin) and I do not think it is weird at all. What are ur thoughts?

[Zack-Bann]

I think you’re hyper focused on the few people who decided it’s weird
Most normal people know it’s not at all a big deal


If anything, it shows that you respect your body and would rather be careful about who you let inside it

[NicholasRedone]

You take your time lady at 19 you're only just starting out :) and I say that at 30 going 31, the 20s are the best :) plenty of time for you to enjoy your 20s

[Berethor]

Female virginity is a good thing, so I am not sure why you getting judged for that.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

It's not weird, f them, they're just sluts looking to drag you down to their level.

[ChicoFromThe305]

People don't have better things to do so they involve themselves in thing they aren't asked about

[jahaims]

They feel bad about their choices and don't want anyone else to be better off than them

[Anonymous]

Why do you feel the need to share it with other people.

[Asker]

They guessed

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah but that doesn't mean you need to confirm it. If some asks you, are you a virgin" you say, "that's none of your business". Because it isn't any of thier business.

[Asker]

Thanks

[beefcakebradybatson]

Don't know, and it's none of their business.

[Billlewis]

Be glad you’re not a guy;)

[Pterodon]

Not weird at all. What others think doesn’t matter