How come people think that im such a loser cause I'm turning 30 years old and I am still a virgin and only dated two girls in my entire life?

[Anonymous]

So I'm turning 30 in October and I haven't dated anyone for the past 4 years, mainly because I graduated college and i am having a hard time meeting people. I've tried tinder and I'm getting no matches whatsoever. It's gotten to the point where I'm having to rely on family on helping setting me up with someone. I get harassed both online and offline about me being a virgin. People call me out for being a virgin still at age 30. Why do people harass me over still being a virgin? What is wrong about being an 30 year old virgin?

[PrudentGuy]

The guys and girls who answered before me offered objective Opinions.

But I think no one thinks you're a loser except yourself.

May I suggest stop such thoughts. This question should not even be posted.

Learn to be a little more confident about yourself and your sexuality.

Avoid stereo social stigma, like guys 30 and virgins are loser.

Finally, when you go for dates, don't show yourself desperate or become a "self-filfilled prophecy". Do something different, like "girls like virgin guys". You may then get your first sex sooner than you think.

[MountAverage]

There's nothing wrong with it, it's just bad for you if you're unhappy because of it. Why do you think are you having such troubles finding a partner?

[Just_a_human]

There's nothing wrong it. It's no one's business. I don't know why people are so concerned about what others do with their genitals. If anything, they're the weirdos.

[Avicenna]

Its no big deal unless you are bothered by it- it's your life, not theirs.

[Will23v]

I’m 23 and I never even been on a single date. Been planning to lose it to a hooker but in ur situation that seems like a bad idea but at least your taking girls out

[paran01a]

You will eventually lose it dont worry, just keep trying your luck with girls

[Anonymous]

How people feel about themselves, is how they think about others.

[Nikki1989]

Just keep on trying. Don't give up.

[Anonymous]

How do they even know you a virgin boi

[Anonymous]

More common than you think

[Twalli]

It's uncommom

[saintman999z]

chill