Am I a loser if I'm almost 20 and still a virgin?

[Anonymous]

I'm a physically attractive guy with some fair social skills. I put myself out there and go to parties or other social events, and I've met a lot of people and most people like me, but for whatever reason, it just hasn't happened for me yet.

[Oliverlogan263]

Nah dude, you're definitely not a loser just because you're still a virgin at 20. There's nothing wrong with that at all. Tons of people don't lose their virginity until they're older, and that's totally normal.

The fact that you're putting yourself out there and people seem to like you is a good sign. Losing your virginity isn't something that just happens overnight - it takes time and the right person. Don't feel like you're behind or anything.

The most important thing is that you're comfortable with yourself and not rushing into anything you're not ready for. Virginity isn't a big deal, so don't let society pressure you into thinking you have to lose it by a certain age. Just focus on meeting people, making connections, and let things happen naturally.

You got plenty of time, man. Don't sweat it. When the right person comes along, you'll know. Until then, just keep doing your thing and being your awesome self. Virginity or not, you're not a loser at all. Stay confident and keep putting yourself out there. It'll happen when the time is right.

[sawno]

No a third of men are virgins when they reach 30. 20 is before your prime and girls these days prefer to date older. If your 20 that primary 20 year olds dating pool isn't interested in you yet so your options are around 18-22. The more you work on yourself and the other aspects in life the more attractive you become, the more practised you are at holding interesting, fun and meaningful conversations with girls the more attractive you become. The more you know about style the more attractive you become and since your before your prime you also become more attractive with age but at that point you do need the maturity to back it up.

[Nikki1989]

That depends on your reasons why. Most people generally have feeble excuses for that dilemma.

[SteveSmith1985]

No man. That doesn't make you a loser. Not at all. This question gets asked all the time (by at least as many women as men)... and by people older than you. It's not even all that uncommon to be a virgin at 19-20. Honestly, you shouldn't even worry about this (I know you're going to anyway. But you shouldn't)

[Jersey2]

It’ll happen. Hang in there. Losing your virginity is a bit overrated, especially for a guy. College chicks put out. You don’t even need to go to college to get them. The hard part will be knowing which one is a keeper. It could be the first one which will make it hard to decide to keep her as you are unsure. Anyway if it gets too much for you, just fib a bit.

[Ironic_Method]

The loser part comes from you being insecure about it.

[Anonymous]

20 is not unusual, historically, its either past 25 or 30 that virgins or humans who have never had intercourse are in the minority, but i'm sure its always been more common than it seems or we think

[In_Trance]

It's not gonna happen by chance.
If you want it, you need to get after it

[Anonymous]

20 is still quite common for being a virgin historically it seems to be past 25 where people are seen outside the minority

[Panthero80]

It happens when it happens. Don't stress about it.

[Anonymous]

Of course you're not a loser for that particular reason. I never experienced intercourse until 25. And she was a masseuse.

[WhiteThought]

No. Don't worry about what others say.