I have never had a girlfriend in my life, never kissed a girl nor have I had sex. Growing up, I was quite a shy person and I never really got any attention from women. Now as the years have gone by, I am quite an outgoing person. I have lots of female friends and I have no trouble talking to girls, I can just never seem to be able to get that much interest from women, not through lack of trying, I have asked out a few women whom I felt attracted to, all of whom said no or said that I was "too good to date" WTF does that mean? I do get discouraged and sometimes I do get a bit depressed about it and I think that I am destined to be alone and a loser.
Another problem is I'm scared that if I get into bed with a girl, and I don't know what to do she will be like "WTF you're 25, why are you so bad in bed?" It's really embarrassing. I feel like most girls wouldn't want to have sex with a guy that doesn't know what he's doing at the age of 25.
What are your honest opinions? Am I a loser?
Most Helpful Guy
You're not a loser. And as for getting a girl in bed, just tell you're a virgin before hand. She won't have a problem with high expectations then, and will make your first time more memorable. The comedian Jimmy Carr famously lost his virginity at 26. He jokes about it now.
You can reinvent yourself at any stage of your life, it's never too late.
The loser is the guy who gives up when he had plenty of time to change things. He just couldn't be arsed and sobbed his way into idleness until the deadline for change really did pass him by.
Don't be that guy.3