I am a 25 year old who is a virgin, never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. Am I a loser? (Page 2)

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I have never had a girlfriend in my life, never kissed a girl nor have I had sex. Growing up, I was quite a shy person and I never really got any attention from women. Now as the years have gone by, I am quite an outgoing person. I have lots of female friends and I have no trouble talking to girls, I can just never seem to be able to get that much interest from women, not through lack of trying, I have asked out a few women whom I felt attracted to, all of whom said no or said that I was "too good to date" WTF does that mean? I do get discouraged and sometimes I do get a bit depressed about it and I think that I am destined to be alone and a loser.

Another problem is I'm scared that if I get into bed with a girl, and I don't know what to do she will be like "WTF you're 25, why are you so bad in bed?" It's really embarrassing. I feel like most girls wouldn't want to have sex with a guy that doesn't know what he's doing at the age of 25. 

What are your honest opinions? Am I a loser?

Anonymous · Answer

Your innocence makes you seem so cute and actually attractive to some

Anonymous · Answer

makes me wonder where us guys who have been single this long went wrong in the past that made us never learn or just never know how to naturally get a girlfriend

Anonymous · Answer

The fact that you're posting about it as if anyone should give a shit, is the pathetic part.

Anonymous · Answer

Same here, but I'm older than you, so I'm even more pathetic :(

Anonymous · Answer

i doubt you are alone, my gut feeling tells me there are more male late bloomers than female late bloomers in the world of dating and sex

Anonymous · Answer

I Often wonder if I was just naturally born a Beta male since I'm a year older than you and can relate

Anonymous · Answer

Seek out help from a Dating Coach, David Wygant, Johnny Berba, Nick Notas, Dan Bacon from the Modern Man, those guys are all awesome

LordOfTheKINGS · Answer

where do u live and are u muslim, if u are a muslim its normal

MikeWilliams · Answer

you'll be alright man. just dont be so nervous when talking to a girl

Anonymous · Answer

You still have time... I'm in much worse position :-((

SandPlanet · Answer

Are you happy in your life otherwise?

Part6fam · Answer

No u are not a loser.

existing_not_living · Answer

No you aren't. You're not a loser.

TallAmazonGirl94 · Answer

Staying single is a hell of a lot better.

thesaintman · Answer

nahh your a champion :)

Tokana · Answer

Am I a loser? no  Am I pathetic?  kind of

bubbletrouble · Answer

Are you saving yourself for marriage?

Renwick769 · Answer

It's better not to know.

moviedude714 · Answer

look up David Wygant and Johnny Berba

misscocobutter · Answer

No u are not a loser

Anonymous · Answer

it's not a deal breaker to me at all

Anonymous · Answer

you should probably lie about your inexperience

kateyy_9674 · Answer

That's okay. You'll find your girl.

Anonymous · Answer

how often do you approach girls, ask them out?

Anonymous · Answer

i'm sure there are more male FA's than female FA's

Anonymous · Answer

there are probably more male FA's than female FA's

Anonymous · Answer

absolutely not!, in fact its quite hot and cute

Anonymous · Answer

Hahahaha. Sheldon?

Syndia · Answer

Nah you're normal

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