Firstly young dude. Your life isn't nearly as bad as you think. I wouldn't rush to try completing yourself with a woman.
A. You are not ugly
B. Living with someone is hard
C. You are master of everything you do.
You probably feel the way you do though sir because your not fully actuating on your own abilities and the things you want for yourself.
Did you want to learn a language, world travel, play an instrument, develop your singing voice, build and fly motorized foam planes or something else.
Exercise if that's a goal but be dedicated to what ever you choose. Do not do it half assed.
A woman will come looking for you if you focus on bettering yourself as an individual.
My advice ask yourself what qualities do you have. Focus on the positives not the negatives. The more you value yourself, the more you have to offer. Jealousy and envy are two different things. If you want something so bad, ask yourself work on how you're going to achieve it. You say your life sucks, in what way? We all have our demons and every now and then we have to dance with it. Pessimistic and low self esteem are a big turn off for women. So yeah.. work on your qualities first. Don't rush into a relationship. We all have our own clocks. Some run faster than others. You'll get your moment one day. You can do it 👍
You're not ugly don't say that about yourself. You have nice eyebrows and your hair and eye colours are appealing.
If you think your life sucks and you're concerned about your weight then you have to change yourself. Change comes from within so you have to get motivated. Start eating better, dieting and going to the gym. Quit eating junk foods, quit eating at night.
Your style is okay but you can start dressing better too it helps.
You should also focus on your positive traits you should think about what you're good at and how you can use it to your advantage.
Let things motivate you, if your friends are doing well then you should aspire to be like them and create goals for yourself.
It could be worse - I'm 31, still a virgin, am slim/have a figure, get told by others I'm pretty, have never been kissed, never had a boyfriend, and can count on one hand the number of times I've ever been asked out and they were all by guys I wasn't into (mostly 50+ year old men).
I think the best thing you could probably do for yourself is to loose some weight and start going to the gym. If you really don't know what you're doing with either, I would suggest something like www.myfitnesspal.com for weight loss (its free, and there's also a free phone app), and/or www.bodybuilding.com for free exercise programs and message boards where you can get help or advice.
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You actually have a really solid jawline and a good frame, go on a run once a week for 20 minutes, then twice a week, run for 20 minutes without stopping twice a week and you will be on the path. You can use that routine as a springboard and start adding bodyweight exercises. Get in shape for yourself, not for a woman, because being in shape is not enough to get a good woman. I've had sex once in my life so I'm practically a virgin too lol, all I can say is don't sweat the fact that you haven't had any action yet too much, it doesn't fking matter because one day you are gunna end up with one woman and you won't need to be a pickup artist like most guys try to be
You're a fat fucking manlet. Exercise blubber butt.
Feeling pissed? Good channel that anger when exercising, when you think you can't go for the next 5 min on the bike think of me calling you a worthless tri-chin.
Just fucking do it, stay hydrated, water is your friend. Lay off the Doritos, don't touch pizza, and if you're feeling adventurous try fasting. But consult with a doctor about fasting.
Bro I been with girls that are attractive.. n I been with girls that have such a beautiful attractive personality.. let me tell you.. I was happier with the girl with a good attitude.. just can't stay away from some one like that it's impossible lol.. now think of that in a girls perspective being that there generally more emotion driven. of course the gym would be a good thing n such
Start working out, make sure money is your number one goal.
Working out makes you happier believe it or not. And do I have to explain money and how low people have gone for monetary gain?
Focus on you, work out, look for a career path, you don't need college if it's not for you.
I'm making tons ebaying in my boxers.
They will come and you need to do meet up groups. There's an app for that, get active.
Good luck sir.
I'm much better looking then you yet I'm still in the same boat as you. Just wait for it and love will eventually find you. Being single isn't so bad. Sure it sucks at times but love is complicated and weird.
If you get really sick of being virgin, just hire an escort and get rid of it
Honestly my guy it starts with you. You gotta want to make the change in your life or you arnt ganna keep to it.
The good news is that for the most part your weight is in your control. If I were you I'd consider cutting back on carbs especially sweets.
Walk more and stop drinking soda and juice and go for water instead. These are relatively easy and cheap first steps and will probably start to show progress within a mounth or so.
Good luck my guy
Im in the same boat as you except im 22. Weight or height has nothing to do with it. If anything i think you're problem is profiling. You keep saying i want an attractive girlfriend, but just having an incredibly hot girlfriend isn't gonna make you happy. Sure you'll feel better about yourself, but what if you don't like who they are? Stop focusing on everything you see the cover and just read the book.
Dude , you actually look quite handsome. All you need to do is lose some weight and grow a beard. Seriously. You should Google a guy called Jeff Buoncristiano , lol he's also on the shorter side like you but after growing a beard , he attracts the most attractive women I've ever seen. Please have a look at him on Google and read his story on his website. Feel this will totally help you recognise your potential. Good luck man.
Gym and diet changes my man. You'll look and feel more confident. It's not going to be easy, no sir, but few good things in life are. Good luck out there.
First photo and last one is better.. all u will stay is grow a fucking beard it would look good on you. Start working out, be yourself and date someone for who they are as a person not for looks
A bit on the tubby side, been there joined the gym got slimmer nothing happened. Try connecting people for their personality. The physical side will come with time bud. Your not unattractive man!
Lose some weight dammit. You already know the problem "I'm fat and short" so do something about it instead of being a miserable fuck
Welcome to the club. Actually, I understand why YOU don't have one, but ME?
I’m 5’6” 160 lbs
I know from experience that I could get to 260 easily if I didn’t watch what I eat
I maintain my weight by eating 1700 calories or less every day
What's your worst health habit?
What are you doing to fix the problem
Start working out.
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