The thing about this topic in general can be very hard 2 pinpoint, because I don't know U personaly. So correct me if I'm wrong in any sence.
I think maybe the main problem I see, is it's U. Now, I'll be honest, it's not about what U look like. Don't U woman say that's it's who the person is, not what they look like? I agree on that statement. It's really the energy of the person. I'm not saying that most people aren't receptive, because where all human. But the point is, it's about the energy of who that person is.
I also look at being a virgin, & I just throw that out the window everyday I wake up. Why should I care about getting laid, or as U pointed out "a great experence". What's that going 2 accomplish? I could get hit by a car, & I'm worried about not having sex? That doesn't sound good, does it? Because it's not. If that's the case, I'll just kill myself right now lol.
What kind of expencrece R U truly looking 4, is what U might be asking yourself. U also might be lonely, because U tend 2 dwell on the negitive things. 4 example of what U said at the first part of the question: "Sometimes I dwell, and become sad". What kind of energy R U putting out there? It's not postive. So when your dwelling on the negitive side of life, then your actually throwing any great experiences U could have had. In reality, your dwelling on why things that R going bad, rather U should focus on life, focus on your self worth, because your perfect just the way God, or the High Power made you.
I promise you will find someone one day, and that releshionship will blossom, because you didn't force it to happen, or dwell on the negitive, but learned to live life. That's the key. Just be happy, and Go, and be lucky within life. My saying I've been useing is "Happy Go Lucky", because life is that way, if we just belive, and just live life without any expectiations. Those expectations can blind us from what's right in front of us. An
Not having a boyfriend at 19, is nothing to be sad about. It means that you are given time to make yourself a better person so that you can deserve a great guy when he comes along.
There is no shame in being a virgin, I'm one too and I plan to keep it till I get married. Maybe I'm conservative, but virginity is not something to be discarded with just because it's 'not cool', it's the first time you make love to a person. And shouldn't that person be really special in your life?
Your problem seems to be of you wanting a relationship. Are you in love with the idea of a relationship, or are you in love with a person? Also remember there are many things you can do with friends, if you are waiting for a guy to complete you then you won't draw a guy at all. If you are looking for a guy to share your love with, you will surely draw a great guy.
I mention great guy, not just guy, because a relationship can both build you up and tear you down, dating a guy may be fun but it might not help you grow, dating a great guy will be both fun and will help both of you grow.
So focus on making yourself a great girl, you be fine :)
I hadn't kissed a guy since the sixth grade up until a few months ago (I'm twenty) I'm still a virgin and I think the only reason this guy likes me is so he too can lose his virginity. There are lots of people like you.
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I wouldn't worry from 16 to 20 I didn't have a single relationship , then I was married by 21, now I'm separated at 24 :)))
u Be very proud that your a Virgin. Dont ever give it up till your married because then it will be ruined if you dont wait
Start making YouTube videos complaining about it, maybe you could be the female version of Elliot Rodger
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