I'm 19 years old, doing uni at the moment doing Cert III in Hospitality. Ever since High School, everyone I knew was getting laid, getting into relationships and so on, and I envied them all cos I was never able to do that. Not to mention the girls thought I was weird cos I had red hair and other reasons, which made me feel really isolated and unattractive.
When I left High School, I started socializing with different people I met at concerts and so on, and don't talk to anyone from HS cos they've all become pr!cks. And all the people I've known outside of school are awesome people. They've talked to me about girls and stuff and they said that I've always gotta be myself, which I always do, but I have no confidence, and due to this, I ALWAYS get friend zoned by every girl I talk to. My friends have tried a lot to get me to meet different girls, but so many of them are turned off by the fact that I have red hair and that I'm a virgin. I've been told by many I'm a good looking guy, but it hurts the fact that 99% of my friends have been in relationships and aren't virgins, and that so many girls prefer to be with people like my friends. It makes me feel so bad and very unattractive that no girl would want to be with me due to so many reasons.
I've gone to different places and tried to speak to different girls but they get freaked out at the fact a random guy whom they've never met before is speaking to them. How am I suppose to cope with what I'm going through? I feel that being in a relationship or losing my v-card is never going to happen to me. Can you please help? :(
When I left High School, I started socializing with different people I met at concerts and so on, and don't talk to anyone from HS cos they've all become pr!cks. And all the people I've known outside of school are awesome people. They've talked to me about girls and stuff and they said that I've always gotta be myself, which I always do, but I have no confidence, and due to this, I ALWAYS get friend zoned by every girl I talk to. My friends have tried a lot to get me to meet different girls, but so many of them are turned off by the fact that I have red hair and that I'm a virgin. I've been told by many I'm a good looking guy, but it hurts the fact that 99% of my friends have been in relationships and aren't virgins, and that so many girls prefer to be with people like my friends. It makes me feel so bad and very unattractive that no girl would want to be with me due to so many reasons.
I've gone to different places and tried to speak to different girls but they get freaked out at the fact a random guy whom they've never met before is speaking to them. How am I suppose to cope with what I'm going through? I feel that being in a relationship or losing my v-card is never going to happen to me. Can you please help? :(
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