Is it normal for my boyfriend to go to a bar alone?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

Yes, that you seem kind of weird to me when you're in a relationship and you want to go to ask your spouse? Your girlfriend wife whatever to come with spend that quiet time together

I don't know anybody who actually goes to a bar alone.
have you asked to go , Or told him you would like to come with him

[Asker]

I’ve went out to eat alone never the bar

[Zack-Bann]

Yes. A bar isn’t the same as a strip club or whore house


You could just go into one and get a drink and leave


Especially for guys
Things won’t “just kinda happen” for a guy at a bar where he ends up hooking up with a girl


Unless he proactively chases her that is


So the question isn’t about if or not he should go at a bar
The question is: do you trust he’s loyal to you


If yes then the bar won’t change a thing

[DishLady]

Sometimes yeah, just to let off some steam before coming home. I used to stop at a cafe on the way home just to reboot instead of bringing negative energy and stress back home with me from work.

[Abbycado]

Neither me nor my boyfriend are old enough yet but we go to campus parties separate on occasion.

I have no problem.

[Asker]

So I’m overthinking?

[Abbycado]

Do you have a reason not to trust him?

[Asker]

No but i go out alone sometimes but not a bar

[Abbycado]

Why does it matter if it is a bar or somewhere else?

[Asker]

He’s told me bars are for meeting new women

[Summeroflove]

I mean it depends on what he’s doing there.

[NicholasRedone]

The Weeknd sings that song very well about "go to the bar drinks on us" - maybe he just wanted to enjoy the vibes and atmosphere 🍷 🍻

[Apple1996]

Nah that's weird especially alone like maybe if he went with friends then it'd be okay

[Asker]

Exactly

[Joshydavid25]

It's not uncommon for a man to go to the bar alone to unstressed I suppose.. But he should at least attempt to ask you.

[Asker]

He never does

[Joshydavid25]

Maybe he just likes going alone to be with his thoughts..

[Asker]

NEver heard of that

[Joshydavid25]

Back in the day, a lot of men used to go to the bar alone after work to get drunk bec4they were stressed.. But that would depend on his view of the bar..

[Alex-Snow]

If it occurs often then maybe it is kinda weird. Is he hooking up with anyone? How solid is ur relationship with him?

[HungTexan]

Why don’t you join him sometimes?

[Asker]

He never asks or tells me until after the fact

[HungTexan]

That’s inconsiderate of him.

[Anonymous]

Sure, I used to go to bar alone.

[Asker]

Really?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, it's not a problem.

[Asker]

I’m overthinking?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I guess you're overthinking a bit.

[Asker]

Your answer doesn’t sound confident

[Opinion Owner]

Oh it's just me, I lack self-confidence. But I really think you're overthinking it.

[RedInnocent69]

No, he’s not alone for long…

[Iron_Man]

Yeah why

[Asker]

While in a relationship?

[Iron_Man]

As long as he doesn’t try to meet girls, it’s OK